Lil Nas X is feeling himself, and why shouldn’t he be? The 23-year-old recently posted a picture of himself on Instagram that has people talking (and thirsting) all over again. Lil Nas X is no stranger to this as we know. The star has proven many times he can set the internet ablaze with a mere wave of his hand. This time Lil Nas X did while taking a bubble bath, using only the bubbles to protect his modesty.
Bubble, Bubble
The “STAR WALKIN’” singer is finishing up leg 2 of the Long Live Montero Tour, in support of his debut studio album, Montero. Throughout the tour, Montero was feeling himself quite a bit. And we’re glad he was because he has been treating us to revealing hotel selfies along the way. His most recent goodies are shots of him enveloped in a thin layer of bubbles. Just enough to pique our interest, but not enough to undermine any OF aspirations he may have (one can dream).
The photos were taken on the Belgium stop of his tour, as evidenced by the Belgian flag he captioned the post with. Montero was in Brussels to be specific, and he included some shot of his concert and one of him exploring the city.
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As you can imagine, the response was overwhelmingly thristy. Some fellow celebrities even joined bathtime to weigh in. “This is the production of Phantom of the Opera I want to see,” wrote actor Jesse Tyler Ferguson. Legendary actor Dashaun Wesley expressed his admiration through fire emojis. Same, Wesley. Same.
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More From Montero
As we said, this isn’t the first time Montero has teased us with tantilizing selfies. It’s not even the first time he’s done this on the Long Live Montero Tour. First we got him covering up with a letterman jacket during his U.S. leg.
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Then we got what might best be described as an impromtu sex ed lesson with pillows as demonstration material.
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Follow Lil Nas X to keep up with his hotel shenanigans. He still has one stop left. Pllenty of time for Lil Nas X to take another bubble bath. Come on in, the water’s fine.
Andrew Garfield is much more than your friendly neighborhood Spider-Man. He’s your friendly neighborhood Spider-Man of the Year. He’s also giving off major leather daddy vibes in this latest shoot from GQ Magazine. Garfield recently secured one of British GQ’s highly coveted Men of the Year slots, along with Jack Harlow and Heartstopper‘s Joe Locke and Kit Connor. To celebrate the announcement, British GQ made Garfield one of the issue’s cover stars. Accompanying the issue is an interview and series of stunning photographs featuring a very shirtless Andrew Garfield in leather pants by Alexander McQueen.
The photography for this cover, taken by the prolific Luke Gilford, is as sublime as Garfield. The 39-year-old is statuesque as he positions himself on the crest of a dune. His hands clasp firmly behind his back as he gazes out into the distance. According to Gilford, they shot all of these photos in an active mining quarry. The evidence of this can be seen in other, less shirtless photos of Andrew Garfield in front of a tangled structure made of twisted metal. He’s dressed in utilitarian-looking clothing like boiler suits and raincoats. The clothes are, of course, anything but. With pieces from Maison Margiela, Gucci, Prada, and Dunhill, they’re not exactly cost-efficient for your average quarry worker.
It wasn’t just his chest that Garfield bares in this issue. The tick, tick… BOOM! actor also opened up about many of the pressures and obstacles he faces as his 40th birthday looms in the distance. Garfield spoke about the loss of his mother to pancreatic cancer in 2019, calling it a very major moment for him. “That cataclysm is a forever-reverberating shift into a deeper awareness of reality,” said Garfield. He described this moment as one that led him to ponder his existence and “the shortness of this window we have.”
All of this and more continue to come into focus for Garfield as he steps into a new decade. With this comes the pressure to have kids. “I always thought I would be the first to have kids and settle down,” said Garfield. Meanwhile, Garfield’s high school friends are “all shacked up and a couple of kids deep, for the most part.” Ultimately, as Garfield notes, life is in charge. Garfield calls it a “perpetual practice of letting shit go. Letting go of an idea of how a thing should look, or be, or feel.”
No Regrets
In the end, despite not having kids, Garfield explains that he is happy to have no regrets. Particularly when it comes to his mom. “There was no stone left unturned,” said Garfield. “There was nothing left unsaid.” As many of us who are grieving will know, that is a very special thing. Regret or no regret, however, there will always be longing. “It would be so nice to be able to continue to love her in person,” Garfield continues. “The grief is never-ending. The love is never-ending […] That’s the nature of love.”
Nicky Champa is feeling lost, but maybe that’s a good thing. The social media icon recently shared a series of artistic shots that showcase both his sculptural physique and artistic talent. Champa took to Instagram to surprise his followers with photos that show a different, moodier side to the 27-year-old. It’s no secret that we’re huge fans of Champa and his husband Pierre, so of course, we had to investigate.
Who Are Nicky and Pierre?
To put it simply, Nicky Champa and Pierre Amaury Crespeau viral TikTok sensations. The couple has a combined following of almost 26 million on the platform. They post adorable and hilarious videos that range from sketches to day-in-the-life content that delights and inspires. Champa and Crespeau met as aspiring actors living in Los Angeles. While on an audition, Champa noticed Crespeau sitting across from him in the waiting room. He was immediately taken by him. So, he did what any of us would do; he took a picture of Crespeau and sent it to his manager, who, as luck would have it, also represented Crespeau.
Little did Champa know that together they would take the internet by storm. Champa also couldn’t have known that they would even tie the knot 5 years late. The couple celebrated their love for one another in an intimate and secret ceremony in Las Vegas, Nevada in Oct. 2022. The very same month, Champa shared these stunning photos. We reached out to Champa to learn more about these beautiful shots and what inspired them.
Gayety: Who is the photographer for this incredible series?
Champa: Usually Pierre is the one that takes all of my solo photos and visa versa although for these it was actually a photographer we worked with a few years back, Luke Fontana.
Photo by Luke Fontana via @nickchampa
Gayety: What inspired these incredible shots?
Champa: I tend to do things creatively that sometimes don’t make sense until a little bit later on in my life. For these, they were shot as I was still figuring myself out and how I wanted to express myself. Now as we (Pierre and I) both sort of find our individuality within ourselves and our relationship, I feel these represent me now much more accurately in this stage of my life. More than ever comfortable in my skin and less afraid.
Gayety: Can we expect to see more artistry like this from you?
Champa: Yes without a doubt. I have so many unshared photos and also have plans to make so many more. Making art in either photographs or videos has always been a creative release for me and will continue to be how I show myself artistically. This conflicting idea that just because I am known for being a certain way on TikTok doesn’t mean I have to restrict the other parts of me, and that stood In the way for quite some time. But now with finding more security in myself, I realized how unnecessary that was and how I want to celebrate who I am now and who I want to be.
After weeks of speculation, Brazillian pop star DJ Pedro Sampaio is putting the rumors to bed. The Latin heartthrob opened up in a recent interview with G1 where he addressed the online discourse about his sexuality. In effect, the 24-year-old came out, although he says he doesn’t identify with a particular label. Instead, Sampaio is open and considered his sexuality to be fluid.
Sampaio is no stranger to the pressure that many celebrities face to adopt a label. “I think it’s so backward,” he says. “You are you, do what you want, whenever you want, with whoever you want.” In the end, as Sampaio puts it, “people are always discovering, always changing.” Having said this, when asked directly, Sampaio did confirm that he is open to dating men as well as women.
The rumors about the star’s sexuality have been flying ever since Bi Visibility Day. Sampaio quote tweeted a selfie from bi singer Jão who was pictured in front of a mirror wearing a bi-Pride shirt. The shirt also featured Hannah Montana giving the peace sign, so we’re talking about several layers of bisexuality. Sampaio added three heart emojis in the colors of the bi-Pride flag with the tweet, and the rumors began in earnest.
This isn’t the only reason the internet has been talking about Sampaio. The star has been spending quite a bit of time with world-famous Brazillian drag queen Pabllo Vittar. The pair are pictured together all over Sampaio’s Instagram, in increasingly cozy circumstances. They even went as far as sharing a kiss on the Brazillian Multishow program Música Boa. Sadly, in the same G1 interview, Sampaio shot down any rumors that they were dating.
Their closeness may instead be a result of their recent project together. The pair released a new duet single called Sal which is available to listen to on Spotify. The video itself is also very queer and a nice break from the dreary winter months up here in the northern hemisphere. This is not Sampaio’s first time working with queer artists either. He has also worked with bisexual singer-songwriters Anitta and Luísa Sonza.
Shawn Mendes likes to hike with his shirt off, and we’re not complaining. It seems every time the world needs a pick-me-up, Shawn Mendes shows up with nothing but a pair of shorts and a gaggle of paparazzi in tow. Now, as we all recover from months of midterms anxiety, Shawn Mendes is back and shirtless. True to form (no pun intended) he is just as shirtless as you might expect.
The Canadian pop star was captured on camera as he took on a Los Angeles trail all by his lonesome. Thankfully the paparazzi decided to keep him company. The 24-year-old is pictured in the resulting shots wearing black basketball shorts, boots, and black socks. His hair looked effortlessly coiffed as he showed off his collection of tattoos to the other lucky hikers.
Why are we never lucky enough to hit the trails when Shawn Mendes is there? It’s not as if Mendes’ shirtless hikes are particularly rare. Similar photos of the star were released earlier this year—and where were we? Not hiking alongside gorgeous pop stars, unfortunately.
These pictures come after Mendes canceled his “Wonder” tour back in July. The singer and songwriter took a step back to focus on his mental and physical health. Although we can’t account for the mental health side of things, it sure looks like he has the physical health part figured out.
In other Mendes news, the star is likely still coming down off of a successful rollout for his second-ever voice role in a major motion picture. Mendes voiced Lyle in the musical comedy Lyle, Lyle, Crocodile. The reception to the film has been mostly positive, with a critics rating of 73% on Rotten Tomatoes.
This is not your grandma’s fine china. Kris and Andrew from Pansy Ass Ceramics have mastered the subtle art of making smutty ceramics. Unlike most fine china, these creations are gay, and they stay dirty no matter how many times you wash them. According to their website, the duo explores “gay male identity and culture” through the medium of porcelain. Fine porcelain often conjures up images of floral vases crammed into heavy cabinets. They are almost a hallmark of traditional domesticity. This contrast makes for compelling artwork that will certainly serve as a conversation starter in your home. They’re also titillating good fun.
In an interview with Pink Planet TV, they described the process as “reverse objectification.” This is in response to the overrepresentation of the female form in art. Although Kris and Andrew have made waves in LGBTQ+ spaces, the appeal goes beyond the gay community. Andrew explains that they’ve even been approached by straight women at some of their art shows, excited to see the medium focus on the male figure.
Keep scrolling for a sampling of some of our favorite pieces that range from planters to functional pieces like lamps and wearables. Don’t worry, you can turn on incognito mode. We won’t tell.
Prurient Planters
Pansy Ass Ceramics has perfected the art of translating the male body into a sexy planter. Stopping to smell the roses has never been so…arousing.
Dirty Dishes
Picture this. You have your chosen family over for a Friendsgiving celebration. As a hungry guest grabs the last turkey leg off the platter, they reveal a little gay inside joke. Cute, naughty, and pretty, all in one.
Filthy Functionals
Pansy Ass Ceramics has been exploring functional gay fine china more and more. With pieces like lamps, teapots, and fruit bowls; suddenly the practical is profane. We love to see it. There are also mustachioed mugs that really remind us of Tom of Finland. Bottoms up!
Obscene Ornaments
Sometimes you just want to cram your entire home with as many ornamental euphemisms as humanly possible. These stunning pieces, some of which are XXXmas themed, make great stocking stuffers.
Wanton Wearables
Who doesn’t love a leather daddy on a t-shirt? Pansy Ass Ceramics knows its audience because they also offer wearables that would make your aunt blush. If you’d like something a little more subtle, there’s no shame in that. Try one of their profane pins or pendants on for size!
Fine China, But Make It Gay
This is queer artistry as we love to see it. Unabashedly queer and totally over the top. In a world where gay culture is becoming increasingly sterilized and commodified, this gives us hope. The pieces in their store are even more NSFW than we included here. Pansy Ass Ceramics has something for everyone, so head on over to their store and treat yourself, or indeed someone else. Probably not grandma, unless that’s something she’s into.
The picturesque beach town of Provincetown in Cape Cod is one of the most popular destinations for a fun gay-cation. Famous in the 1960s as a colony for free spirits and artists, “P-town” is home to a vibrant LGBTQ community with many fun events, clubs, and other attractions for LGBTQ vacationers.
This guide will tell you everything you need to know to help you plan an incredible gay Provincetown vacation. Check out our tips on where to stay, which dining hotspots to visit, and which LGBTQ Provincetown bars to go to for an unforgettable trip!
Provincetown is a popular summer vacation destination because of the warm weather, bustling carnival crowds, and lovely beaches. However, it’s best known as the oldest gay resort town in America and a safe place to be out and proud. After Massachusetts became the first U.S. state to recognize same-sex marriage in 2004, Provincetown offered to issue marriage licenses to out-of-state gay couples.
Though the town only has around 3,000 residents, it has the highest concentration of same-sex households in the U.S. It also has the most lesbian-owned businesses per capita. The gay neighborhoods of Provincetown are full of gay bars and gay-owned businesses, with over a dozen LGBTQ events held every year.
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LGBTQ Events In Provincetown
The Provincetown gay scene is always buzzing with new events for the LGBTQ community. Check which ones are being held during your visit. Though summer is considered gay Provincetown’s peak season, there’s a lot of exciting activities happening year-round in P-town.
When Is Gay Pride Week In Provincetown?
Provincetown typically holds its Gay Pride Week every first weekend of June. Its first Pride celebration was held in 2018, and this colorful annual celebration is marked with special activities like drag nights, Pride cruises, and dance parties. The Provincetown Gay Pride Week also typically holds a Pride Rally followed by the annual tea dance, where the community can sashay their cares away and celebrate their identities.
August visitors should join the fabulous, party-ready crowds at the week-long Provincetown Carnival. It’s the town’s biggest LGBTQ event, attracting tens of thousands of tourists from all over the world. Admire the parade floats, come dressed in your craziest costume, and check out what performances and activities are scheduled this year.
Also known as FanFair, this event is a week dedicated to uplifting the transgender and gender-questioning communities. Past fairs have held workshops on fashion, relationships, and self-care through writing. The Closing Party is not to be missed, featuring a buffet and incredible live entertainment.
The Brass Key Guesthouse
Where To Stay In Provincetown: Gay-Friendly Hotels & Inns
Because of how warm and LGBTQ-friendly this Massachusetts town is, you’d be hard-pressed not to find a great gay hotel in Provincetown. Here are some of the best places to stay during your gay Provincetown vacation.
The Brass Key Guesthouse is a boutique hotel best known for its cozy jacuzzi tubs, gorgeous infinity pool, and secluded garden areas. The rooms are luxuriously appointed, its staff are warm and friendly, and it’s right in the heart of Provincetown, so all the main clubs and restaurants are walking distance.
This adults-only boutique hotel has only 7 rooms for a private, personalized experience. The nearest beach is just a minute’s walk away, but we highly recommend that you take full advantage of 8 Dyer’s excellent resort amenities. With an outdoor pool, spa tub, and complimentary breakfast, it’s one of the most luxurious B&Bs in town.
Found just off P-Town’s busy Commercial Street, the pet-friendly Pilgrim House Inn offers comfortable Victorian-style rooms and hearty dinners at its restaurant, The Landing. People-watch at the front bar after shopping at the nearby stores, or enjoy the excellent in-house entertainment with live singing and dancing.
Land’s End Inn is a small but cozy and stylish hilltop B&B. Its 18 unique rooms offer incredible views of the ocean, and Provincetown’s hotspots are just a short walk away. Mornings here start with a fresh continental breakfast on the veranda or the garden. We highly suggest joining the daily wine reception to mingle with other guests over a quality selection of wines, beers, and snacks.
The Canteen
Where To Eat In Provincetown
Exploring Provincetown’s gay scene can work up an appetite. When your tummy’s rumbling, stop by these incredible local spots for unforgettable eats.
Many visitors smell this Provincetown favorite before they even see the sign, thanks to the tasty Portuguese bread and pastries made fresh here every day. The puffy, cinnamon-coated malasadas and custardy pasteis de nata (a.k.a. egg tarts) from Provincetown Portuguese Bakery are irresistible!
The Canteen is a beach-themed casual eatery that serves Cape Cod favorites from scratch. Fresh seafood is the star here, with the lobster rolls, clam chowder, and shrimp cocktail earning high praise from locals and tourists alike. Hot tip: pair your orders with the frozen rose wine, a light tipple that complements the flavors of the local catch.
Looking for late-night bites? Spiritus Pizza serves incredible thin-crust pizza made with USDA-certified organic flour. Big groups can share the generously-topped Spiritus Special pie to soak up a night’s worth of drinking. But if you only need a couple of slices, the fresh Greek slice with its white pizza base, spinach, and olives will hit the spot.
There’s always a long brunchtime queue here for a reason! Liz’s Cafe is a quaint restaurant that serves heavenly lobster eggs benedict, hearty omelets, and sugary flippers for dessert. The staff are friendly and they offer complimentary coffee refills — there’s no better breakfast spot in P-town!
The Shipwreck Lounge
Where To Party In Provincetown: Gay Bars & Clubs
There are nearly a dozen gay bars in Provincetown, and we’ve selected five of the most popular ones to check out during your trip. Each one has a different vibe, but all are welcoming to the LGBTQ community and straight visitors alike.
Also known as A-House, Atlantic House has been open for over two centuries and is the oldest gay bar in the country. This historic drinking establishment is popular with the Provincetown gay community thanks to its massive dancefloor, eclectic crowd, and fun dance tunes.
The Boatslip Beach Club is a seasonal, adults-only LGBTQ Provincetown resort. While it’s a great place to stay, the main draw here is the daily Tea Dance held from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. The lounge chairs get swapped out for portable bars and the resident DJ Maryalice spins lively sets well worth the entrance fee. The usual crowd is a friendly mix of first-timers and regulars, so don’t be afraid to mingle!
Located at the Brass Key Guesthouse, the Shipwreck Lounge has a cozy, intimate vibe and great ambiance. This is a quieter spot that’s ideal for catching up with old friends or starting conversations with new ones. Enjoy the handcrafted cocktails by the fireplace or at an outside patio table. If you’re not sure what to order, ask one of the in-house mixologists to custom-make a drink for you.
The Paramount Club is P-Town’s largest waterfront nightclub, located in the sprawling entertainment complex, Crown & Anchor. It’s popular with the Provincetown gay community because of its cabaret shows, great DJs, and poolside dance parties.
Those looking for a spicier night out can swing next door from Paramount to The Vault in the Crown & Anchor. This dark leather-themed gay bar is where people come to cruise, drink, and meet new faces. Hot tip: The Vault has regular drink specials and no cover charge, but it can get packed there during Bear Week in August, P-Town’s annual bear gathering.
Other Fun Things To Do In Provincetown
Provincetown is most popular in the summer. However, tourists flock here year-round because of its fun activities, quaint boutiques, and sweeping beaches. Here are some must-dos to add to the itinerary of your Provincetown gay vacation.
Swim And Chill At Herring Cove Beach
Province Lands Road
No trip to Provincetown is complete without a leisurely day at one of the nearby beaches. Herring Cove Beach is a popular, gay-friendly beach with a clothing-optional area. Go for a dip in the calm waters or watch the sunset with your friends. If you can, snag one of the limited permits for a beach campfire – perfect for making s’mores and warming up after a swim.
Shop At Commercial Street
There are plenty of gay-owned and gay-friendly stores, art galleries, and restaurants on bustling Commercial Street. Drop by these places and grab some souvenirs while you’re there.
The Penney Patch (281 Commercial St.): Sweet-toothed tourists should swing by this store, which has sold small-batch fudge, saltwater taffy, and other sugary treats in Provincetown since 1956.
Cock & Bull Leather (259 Commercial St.): This is a great spot for high-quality leather goods in a variety of styles, especially jackets and belts. Take your time browsing, as some rare finds are discounted up to 50% off.
Toys of Eros (200 Commercial St.): If you’re looking for something to sizzle up your bedroom, Toys of Eros sells high-quality sex toys, lubricants, and other naughty goodies. Part of the profits are donated to Queer Nation Provincetown.
Mad As A Hatter (360 Commercial St.): This store has been selling hats in every style and color for nearly 50 years. From simple boaters to snazzy fedoras, you’re bound to find a unique piece to complement your outfit.
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Explore Cape Cod Provincelands Trail
Cape Cod Provincelands Trail is a scenic bike trail that takes you through sandy beach dunes, beach forests, and hills. While it has three other access points, we recommend that first-timers start on the trail through Province Lands Visitor Center. It’s the most practical place to park.
Bring plenty of water, as this trail stretches 5.25 miles and has some sharp turns that can be tricky to navigate. The effort is well worth it, as you’ll get incredible views of the Atlantic Ocean and the Plymouth Highlands while cycling.
Visit The Provincetown Art Association And Museum
460 Commercial St.
Established in 1914, the Provincetown Art Association And Museum (PAAM) combines the inspiration of Cape Cod’s natural beauty with the creative energy of one of America’s oldest art colonies. It’s Cape Cod’s most-visited art museum. The museum features 3,000 artworks in its permanent collection and two to three exhibits running at any given time. Check the PAAM site to find out which educational workshops and gallery conversations will be held during your visit.
The Bottom Line
If you’re looking for a fun destination for gay travel, Provincetown has plenty of exciting attractions for the ultimate getaway. Whether you want to check out the bustling gay bars or simply want to enjoy the natural beauty of the sunny beaches, you’re free to be yourself while exploring Provincetown!
Red Hot is back for a 2023 edition and this time they’ve gone global. Fans of the Red Hot may remember their other calendars including European Boys in 2020 and American Boys in 2019. This year they extended the project globally, working with photographers and the hottest men with red hair all over the world. As Red Hot’s photographer and creative director, Thomas Knights is joined by reputable names from Paris to Tel Aviv. They include Raphaël Chatelain, Lior Horesh, Zachary Kendrick, and Sequoyah.
The photographers captured each model in stunning quality, surrounded by nature. From verdant grasslands to desolate salt lakes, they look ethereal in spreads reminiscent of sophisticated editorial photography. These photos are a feast for the eyes, in more ways than one. We’re sure you’re hungry, so let’s not keep you any longer. Follow us now on a trip around the world.
Red Hot has a history of showcasing ginger excellence while also raising over £70,000 for various charities. They include Movember, the Elton John AIDS Foundation, Athlete Ally, The Anti-Bullying Alliance, and The Diana Award. With this calendar, Red Hot is raising money and awareness for the Testicular Cancer charity, It’s In The Bag. Not that you needed an excuse to ogle handsome redheads, but it helps.
This year Red Hot 2023 comes to us alongside Own It 2023, a calendar designed to showcase and celebrate the beauty in what sets us apart. Pick up a copy of Red Hot 2023 today for the uncropped, untouched photos and take a trip around the world for yourself.
