6. He looks at hot guys in the room more often.

We all look at attractive guys. We cannot help it. However, after a while, it’s pretty clear the tone of glance he has is somewhat purposeful. Meaning, he wants you to see him look at other guys. Why? Because in his small-minded idiotic brain, he would rather you get the message from that than speak about his feelings.

7. The things you once thought were cute now annoy the living sh*t out of you.

His laugh, the way he carries himself, the way he folds his shirts in the morning, the way he smiles at the dog were all adorable at some point. Now, you would rather watch Donald Trump on a loop than watch him fold another stupid shirt.

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However, the funny thing is, you do not know why. This is your gut trying to tell you something is not right. A spark is missing, and it is time to investigate.

8. He starts touching you less and less. 

When you were out in public, he used to put his arm around you because he was proud. It made you feel warm, wanted, and loved. However, lately the touching has stopped, and you did not realize it until recently. Touching is important. It reaffirms his affection and makes us feel validated — when that ends, we ought to pay attention.

9. When he makes you feel worthless over something small.

It could be something as small as leaving a bag of chips on the counter. To him, it is not only the end of the world, but he sees it as an opportunity to rip you to shreds. He’ll pick apart everything you’ve done because of a simple bag on the counter. Clearly, he has been building tension for a while now and saw this as a time to unleash it. Don’t ever ignore this type of behavior.

David Artavia is an actor and writer from New York City. He loves living vicariously through his friends. Follow him on Twitter and Like his Facebook page.