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  • Erika Jayne Opens Up Saying She Has ‘No Idea’ If Garcelle Beauvais Friendship Can Be Repaired After RHOBH Exit

    Erika Jayne Opens Up Saying She Has ‘No Idea’ If Garcelle Beauvais Friendship Can Be Repaired After RHOBH Exit

    Erika Jayne may have fallen short of winning The Masked Singer Season 13, but she walked away with something arguably more valuable: a renewed connection to her craft—and a candid perspective on her often-complicated relationships, including her fractured friendship with former Real Housewives of Beverly Hills co-star Garcelle Beauvais.

    Jayne, 53, was unmasked on the Wednesday, April 9 episode of the popular Fox series after performing under the guise of “Yorkie,” a sparkly, energetic costume that matched the performer’s larger-than-life persona. She sang The Supremes’ “Stop! In the Name of Love” and Otis Redding’s “Hard to Handle” in a Battle Royale against Nessy but narrowly missed out on joining the season’s “Lucky Six.” “It was my goal every night to get out there and fully inhabit the Yorkie,” Jayne told PEOPLE following her elimination. “I did it from the moment I stepped in the costume to the moment I took it off.”

    While the experience allowed the singer, actress, and reality star to lean into her passion for performing, it also gave her a rare opportunity to step back from the scrutiny she’s faced in recent years—and reflect on both her personal growth and her evolving relationships, including the tension with Beauvais.

    Anonymity, Joy, and a Return to the Stage

    Jayne described her time on The Masked Singer as creatively liberating. Behind the mask, she says, she was free to perform without being weighed down by public expectation or personal drama.“I felt really free behind the mask and inside the costume,” she said. “It was pure fun—something I hadn’t felt in a long time.”

    Erika Jayne as Yorkie in 'The Masked Singer' season 13. Photo: Michael Becker/FOX
    Erika Jayne as Yorkie in ‘The Masked Singer’ season 13. Photo: Michael Becker/FOX

    Performing songs outside her usual repertoire, including “Step by Step” by New Kids on the Block, Jayne said she welcomed the chance to explore new musical styles. Though the costume was physically challenging—layered, hot, and topped with a nearly eight-pound mask—she leaned into the experience with enthusiasm. “The costume made the personality come to life,” she explained. “I was able to fully commit to being this adorable Yorkie, and that was part of the magic.”

    Real Housewives Tension and a Friendship on Pause

    While her time on The Masked Singer offered a welcome creative outlet, Jayne hasn’t been able to escape ongoing questions about her personal life, particularly her strained dynamic with Garcelle Beauvais. The former friends and castmates exchanged sharp words earlier this year after Beauvais announced her departure from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and made pointed remarks about Jayne on Watch What Happens Live. “Listen, people have to do what’s right for themselves,” Jayne said. “As far as my response, I was reacting to what she said—‘F— Erika’—the week before. So I gave my response.”

    Jayne’s clapback drew attention from Bravo fans and reignited speculation about whether their friendship is beyond repair. “Do I think our relationship can be repaired? I have no idea,” she admitted. “That’s something only time—and maybe circumstance—will reveal.”

    She didn’t rule out the possibility of Beauvais returning to RHOBH as a friend of the cast or re-entering the franchise in some capacity. “That’s certainly an option,” Jayne said, leaving the door open. “We’ll see how it plays out.”

    Erika Jayne and estranged husband Tom Girardi. Photo: Bravo
    Erika Jayne and estranged husband Tom Girardi. Photo: Bravo

    The once-strong friendship between Jayne and Beauvais began to unravel during their shared time on RHOBH, with public feuds and on-screen tensions fueling fan speculation. For Jayne, the drama has been both professional and deeply personal, especially during her ongoing legal and emotional challenges stemming from her divorce from former attorney Tom Girardi.

    Guarding Her Heart and Moving Forward

    Jayne’s final clue package on The Masked Singer referenced emotional resilience and the importance of self-protection—an open nod to the personal turmoil she has endured since filing for divorce in 2020 and becoming embroiled in Girardi’s legal scandals. “Going through what I’ve gone through in public and personally, I think that I’ll always protect my heart,” she said. “It’s not about being closed off—it’s about being careful.”

    Despite the chaos, Jayne said she’s focused on rebuilding, step by step, and that music and performance remain central to her identity. “I’m always creating,” she said. “I’ll be performing at London’s Mighty Hoopla festival in June. Maybe I’ll go back to Broadway—you never know.”

    A Career Beyond the Headlines

    Jayne’s tenure on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills has shaped her public image, but she remains driven by her artistic roots. The Pretty Mess singer has toured internationally, released dance-pop hits, and appeared on Broadway—all of which she plans to continue. “Reality TV is what people most associate me with these days,” she acknowledged. “But what I’ve felt this year, more than anything, is support from people who are watching me reclaim my life and find peace again.”

    The Takeaway from The Masked Singer

    While Jayne didn’t take home the Golden Mask Trophy, she said her time on the show was exactly what she needed: a chance to perform with joy, explore new artistic territory, and step away from the noise. “I’m not disappointed at all,” she said. “I did what I came to do, and I had an amazing time doing it.”

    As for what’s next, Jayne is keeping her options open—but one thing is certain: whether on stage, on television, or in the recording studio, she’s not done telling her story. “This year has been about taking control, leaning into the things I love, and moving forward,” she said. “Whatever happens next, I’m ready for it.”

  • Los Angeles LGBT Center to Close West Hollywood Clinic After Nearly a Decade of Service

    Los Angeles LGBT Center to Close West Hollywood Clinic After Nearly a Decade of Service

    The Los Angeles LGBT Center has confirmed plans to close its Center WeHo clinic, a long-standing health facility in the heart of West Hollywood. After nearly a decade at its current location at 8745 Santa Monica Blvd, the clinic is expected to shut its doors in June, according to a source with direct knowledge of the decision.

    While the official closure date has not yet been publicly announced, the Center informed employees of the upcoming changes in an internal announcement made last week.

    The decision to close the Center WeHo clinic stems from a range of operational and logistical issues, including escalating costs and ongoing infrastructure limitations. Among the contributing factors cited are building management challenges, lease issues, safety and security concerns, parking constraints for both patients and staff, and visibility difficulties at the location that reportedly limit the clinic’s accessibility to new patients.

    “The reality is that the West Hollywood area is already well-served by other health organizations offering similar services, including sexual health testing and PrEP access,” one employee shared, speaking on the condition of anonymity. “That made it harder to justify the ongoing expense of maintaining this particular facility, especially with all the additional burdens we’ve been navigating.”

    The clinic, which is located above Schmitty’s Bar, opened in October 2015 with the mission of delivering inclusive, stigma-free sexual health care and HIV prevention resources to the LGBTQ community. Over the years, Center WeHo has become a trusted provider of no-cost HIV and STI testing, treatment, and prevention services such as PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) and PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis). Additional services include vaccinations for hepatitis A and B, HPV, condom distribution, and partner notification assistance. The clinic also helps uninsured patients access financial aid and coverage options for their health needs.

    Yet despite its longstanding role in the community, the Center faced mounting financial and political headwinds. In addition to structural and logistical issues, a broader shift in the funding landscape has posed new challenges. Sources close to the organization say that a freeze on federal funding under the Trump-era executive order affecting government contracts has had a lingering impact on community health providers, including the Los Angeles LGBT Center.

    “Cost of care delivery is going up, while support from public institutions is going down,” the employee said. “It’s not sustainable unless there’s a serious reinvestment in LGBTQ health infrastructure.”

    The closure reflects a larger recalibration of services across the Center’s expansive network. With nearly 800 employees, the Los Angeles LGBT Center operates one of the most robust portfolios of LGBTQ-specific services anywhere in the world. The organization remains committed to preserving jobs during the transition and is currently working to relocate impacted Center WeHo employees to other facilities, primarily the flagship campus in Hollywood.

    Union representatives are reportedly involved in ongoing conversations with the Center’s leadership to ensure workers are supported during the move.

    Despite the closure of this satellite location, the Center emphasized that its broader mission and commitment to the LGBTQ community remains unchanged. Since its founding in 1969, the Los Angeles LGBT Center has grown into a global leader in queer and trans advocacy, offering programs and services across four pillars: Health; Social Services and Housing; Culture and Education; and Leadership and Advocacy.

    From health care access and housing for LGBTQ youth, to arts education and policy reform, the Center serves more LGBTQ people than any other organization in the world. Its continued work spans across Los Angeles County and extends to global partnerships focused on human rights, equity, and community-building.

    The closure of the Center WeHo facility may mark the end of a chapter, but Center officials insist that their fight for equality, safety, and well-being for LGBTQ individuals is far from over.

    “This is not a retreat from the community,” the source emphasized. “It’s a strategic shift to ensure that we can keep delivering quality care and expanding where it’s most needed. That’s how we continue to lead, even in difficult times.”

    West Hollywood, a historic hub of LGBTQ activism and community life, will still have access to a range of health and wellness services through other nonprofit and public health providers. However, the absence of Center WeHo is expected to be felt by long-time patients and supporters who have relied on its free and confidential services.

    The Los Angeles LGBT Center has not yet issued a formal public statement about the clinic’s closure, but updates are expected in the coming weeks as transition planning continues.

    In the meantime, patients currently receiving care at Center WeHo are encouraged to reach out to the Center’s Hollywood campus or visit the organization’s website for guidance on how to maintain continuity of care during and after the transition.

    As June approaches, the community will bid farewell to a facility that has played a vital role in West Hollywood’s LGBTQ health landscape. Still, the Center’s leadership remains focused on the future—one where every person, regardless of gender or sexuality, can access care with dignity and pride.

  • Trixie Mattel and VINCINT Reimagine RuPaul’s ‘Supermodel’ Ahead of Coachella Performance

    Trixie Mattel and VINCINT Reimagine RuPaul’s ‘Supermodel’ Ahead of Coachella Performance

    Drag icon Trixie Mattel and genre-defying pop artist VINCINT are joining forces for a bold and energetic reimagining of one of drag culture’s most iconic anthems. The duo will release a cover of RuPaul’s classic hit “Supermodel (You Better Work)” on April 11 via PEG Records, just ahead of their highly anticipated joint performance at Coachella 2025.

    The release marks a dynamic fusion of two powerhouse performers with deep roots in queer artistry and musical innovation. The track arrives just one day before Trixie’s DJ set at The Do Lab stage on April 12 during the first weekend of the famed music and arts festival.

    A Legendary Collaboration

    Speaking about the collaboration, Trixie Mattel expressed both reverence and excitement. “On top of this song being one of the best to get the gays losing their minds on the dancefloor, I feel a special personal connection to both it and RuPaul, for obvious reasons,” she said in a statement Tuesday. “And to bring it to life with VINCINT? Bitch, it’s so on. All my respect to the icon VINCINT and the legend RuPaul.”

    The revamped track promises to celebrate the spirit of the original while bringing a modern flair, powered by VINCINT’s distinctive vocals and Trixie’s signature pop flair. Known for her wit, musicality, and eye-catching aesthetics, Trixie has made a career of blending drag performance with mainstream entertainment — and this latest release is another step in her ever-evolving journey.

     

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    VINCINT, whose work has spanned pop, dance, and soul, echoed the excitement. “Supermodel is such an iconic song to be covering. RuPaul is such an honor. I’m so excited about it,” he said. “I ran into Trixie backstage at the OUT 100. I had just gotten off stage and she was running to DJ and ran the idea by me. I thought it was the most incredible thing — and from the first bounce we got from the studio, I was in love with it. I’m still in love with it! I’m so excited to be performing it with her at Coachella. I’m so excited for the world to hear it.”

    Coachella and the “Solid Pink Disco” Tour

    The collaboration also fits seamlessly into Trixie’s current 2025 global tour, Solid Pink Disco, a neon-drenched, high-energy spectacle that’s captivating audiences around the world. Her Coachella DJ set, where she and VINCINT will debut “Supermodel” live, falls squarely in the middle of the tour’s North American leg.

     

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    “This year’s iteration of my worldwide dancerie Solid Pink Disco will be more solid, more pink, and more disco,” Trixie teased. “At a time where the world needs to party in the face of the patriarchy, we WILL be putting on cheap wigs and spinning around to Diana Ross, okay darling?”

    The tour has been lauded not only for its infectious energy and dazzling visuals, but also for its unifying message of joy, resistance, and queer celebration. Fans are encouraged to dress the part — with pink outfits and blonde wigs as unofficial dress code staples — and come ready to dance.

    Cementing a Pop Culture Legacy

    Trixie Mattel has been a constant force in the entertainment industry since winning RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 3. But her reach extends far beyond the drag stage. With multiple Billboard-charting albums, best-selling books, a popular podcast, a cosmetics empire, and a widely viewed YouTube series, Trixie has grown into a multifaceted media brand with global influence.

    She’s also known for her uncanny ability to blend camp and sincerity — a hallmark of queer performance — and her approach to music is no exception. Whether she’s covering country classics or remixing dance floor bangers, Trixie continues to push the boundaries of what drag music can sound like.

    VINCINT, too, brings a rich artistic pedigree to the collaboration. Best known for his soaring vocals, emotive songwriting, and barrier-breaking visibility as a Black queer pop artist, he’s earned acclaim for singles such as “Be Me,” “Hard 2 Forget,” and “Save Myself.” His presence in the project brings additional musical credibility and cultural weight.

    A Celebration of Queer Icons and Legacy

    “Supermodel (You Better Work),” originally released by RuPaul in 1992, has long been considered an essential anthem in queer pop history. Its release marked a turning point in the mainstream visibility of drag culture and remains one of RuPaul’s most recognizable songs. With this new version, Trixie and VINCINT pay homage to a trailblazer while injecting their own bold artistry into the mix.

    As anticipation builds for Coachella, fans are already buzzing online, eager to see how the duo will transform the iconic song for a live festival audience.

    The single will be available across all major streaming platforms starting April 11. Whether you’re dancing in the desert or streaming from home, this collaboration is poised to be a highlight of the spring music season.

  • Tennessee Far Right Pastor Says That The ‘Gay Beam’ Airport Scanner will Apparently Make Him Gay

    Tennessee Far Right Pastor Says That The ‘Gay Beam’ Airport Scanner will Apparently Make Him Gay

    Andrew Isker, a right-wing Christian nationalist podcaster, has recently attracted attention for his unconventional views on airport security measures and his interpretation of Christian nationalism. In a recent podcast appearance, Isker expressed concerns about the potential effects of airport body scanners, suggesting they might influence one’s sexual orientation.​

    Concerns Over Airport Body Scanners

    During a podcast with co-host C. Jay Engel, Isker questioned the necessity of the Patriot Act, enacted in 2001, and expressed discomfort with airport body scanners. He stated, “​I had to be molested at the airport to go to Florida, right, just to get on an airplane, just because I’m not going to go through the ‘gay beam’ machine.” Isker further recounted advising Engel against using the scanner, saying, “​I said, ‘You’re getting patted down, too, buddy. I don’t want them turning you gay.’“​

    It’s important to note that modern airport body scanners utilize millimeter-wave technology, which creates a generic outline of the body, highlighting areas that may require further screening. These images are not detailed and are reviewed by security personnel in private settings to address privacy concerns.

    Past Controversial Statements

    This incident is not isolated in terms of Isker’s controversial remarks. He has previously voiced opinions that have drawn criticism. In a discussion about the term “Judeo-Christian,” Isker remarked that the United States is a nation belonging solely to Jesus, stating, “​This country belongs to Jesus. He is God. This is his; not any other people but his people.” He further added that Jews should not have a “seat at the table” in American governance, suggesting such inclusion undermines the exclusivity of Christ. ​

    Additionally, Isker has co-authored a book on Christian nationalism with Andrew Torba, the CEO of Gab, a social media platform known for hosting controversial content. The book outlines their vision for a society governed by Christian principles, advocating for the establishment of a theocratic system.​

    Public Reaction and Criticism

    Isker’s statements have elicited a range of reactions from the public and various organizations. Civil liberties groups have expressed concern over the implications of his views on governance and societal structure, emphasizing the importance of religious pluralism and separation of church and state. Critics argue that such perspectives could marginalize non-Christian communities and infringe upon individual freedoms.​

    Furthermore, Isker’s comments about airport security measures have sparked discussions about privacy and personal boundaries. While some share his discomfort with invasive security procedures, others view his remarks as an overreaction, highlighting the need for effective security measures in the context of global threats.​

    The Balance Between Security and Privacy

    The debate over airport security protocols is longstanding, with travelers expressing concerns about the invasiveness of certain screening methods. In 2010, the introduction of full-body scanners led to public outcry, with some passengers opting out of scans in favor of pat-downs, which were perceived as less intrusive. Homeland Security Secretary Janet Napolitano defended the scanners, stating that abandoning them would be “irresponsible.”​

    The challenge lies in balancing the need for security with respect for individual privacy rights. As threats evolve, so too must security measures, but it’s crucial that these measures do not disproportionately infringe upon personal freedoms.​

  • Kit Connor Expresses Hesitation About ‘Heartstopper’ Season 4 Without Strong Narrative

    Kit Connor Expresses Hesitation About ‘Heartstopper’ Season 4 Without Strong Narrative

    Kit Connor, the 21-year-old actor who portrays Nick Nelson in the acclaimed LGBTQ+ Netflix series “Heartstopper,” recently stated that he would not want to pursue a fourth season of the show “just for the sake of making it.”

    Connor stars opposite Joe Locke, who plays Charlie Spring, in the series that debuted in 2021 and quickly garnered widespread praise from audiences and critics alike. “Heartstopper” has been particularly lauded for its positive and nuanced depiction of young LGBTQ+ individuals navigating their identities and relationships, offering a refreshing contrast to often traumatic narratives prevalent in LGBTQ+ media.

    However, the future of the series beyond its upcoming third season remains uncertain, leaving many fans eager for news regarding a potential fourth and possibly final installment. As of now, there has been no official announcement concerning the production of another season.

    In a recent interview with The Cut, Connor addressed the possibility of returning for a fourth season of “Heartstopper.” While the actor could not provide any concrete updates on the production status or whether it would indeed move forward, he offered insights into the considerations that would necessitate a continuation of the story.

    Connor emphasized that the creative team behind “Heartstopper,” including himself, would only be interested in a fourth season if there was a compelling narrative to explore, rather than simply extending the series for the sake of it. He alluded to the logistical challenges and the potential for the characters’ journeys to naturally conclude, making a poignant point about the show’s premise.

    “You don’t want to see Olivia Colman driving a 30-year-old Kit Connor to high school,” Connor told The Cut, humorously referencing the age of his character and the potential for the show’s premise to become unrealistic if stretched too far. Olivia Colman portrays Nick’s supportive mother in the series.

    Ultimately, Connor indicated that his priorities for future projects lie in “good writing, good filmmaker, good role.” While he did not offer specifics, he teased that he currently has several projects in development.

    Connor’s cautious remarks may be concerning for fans who are hoping for a definitive conclusion to the stories of Nick, Charlie, and their friends on screen. The third season of “Heartstopper” is expected to draw heavily from the fourth and fifth volumes of Alice Oseman’s popular graphic novel series, which serves as the show’s source material.

    While Oseman has yet to release the sixth and final volume of the graphic novels – with a projected publication date in late 2025 or 2026 – the author and illustrator has previously offered updates regarding the potential for a fourth season of the Netflix adaptation.

    Speaking at the Waterstones Children’s Book Festival in February, Oseman conveyed a sense of optimism regarding the show’s renewal.

    “I’m working very hard to get us a renewal for ‘Heartstopper’,” Oseman said. “It’s still ongoing. We don’t have a final answer yet. But there are so many people behind the scenes who are working really hard to make it happen.” Oseman added, “We’re feeling optimistic, we’re feeling hopeful.”

    Echoing Oseman’s sentiments, “Heartstopper” producer Patrick Walters acknowledged the ongoing efforts to secure a fourth season during an interview with Deadline in March.

    Alice Oseman, creator of the popular Netflix series Heartstopper, is working behind the scenes to secure a fourth season of the beloved teen romance series.
    Alice Oseman, creator of the popular Netflix series Heartstopper, is working behind the scenes to secure a fourth season of the beloved teen romance series.

    “People are working hard on it,” Walters told the outlet, while also noting that “there are lots of moving parts” involved in the decision-making process for a series renewal.

    The success and cultural impact of “Heartstopper” have made it a significant property for Netflix, particularly within the young adult and LGBTQ+ demographics. The series’ positive representation and heartfelt storytelling have resonated with a global audience, leading to critical acclaim and a dedicated fanbase.

    The potential for a fourth season hinges on various factors, including the availability of the cast and creative team, the narrative direction following the third season, and Netflix’s overall programming strategy. Connor’s emphasis on the importance of strong writing suggests that the quality of the story will be a key consideration in his decision to return.

    As fans await official news regarding the future of “Heartstopper,” Connor’s comments underscore the delicate balance between continuing a beloved series and ensuring that it maintains its integrity and narrative strength. The desire from both the cast and the creative team to avoid extending the show gratuitously speaks to their commitment to the source material and the audience’s connection to the characters.

    “Heartstopper” is currently available for streaming on Netflix. The third season is anticipated to premiere later this year, and fans remain hopeful that an announcement regarding a fourth season will follow, providing a satisfying conclusion to the beloved story of Nick and Charlie. The ongoing efforts behind the scenes, as indicated by Oseman and Walters, suggest that the possibility of a fourth season is still very much alive, contingent on the various factors at play in television production and creative vision.

  • ‘Survivor’ Star Teeny Chirichillo Comes Out as Transgender Man: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Authenticity

    ‘Survivor’ Star Teeny Chirichillo Comes Out as Transgender Man: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Authenticity

    Teeny Chirichillo, a star from the hit CBS reality series Survivor, has officially come out as a transgender man. In an emotional and deeply personal essay published in Cosmopolitan on Wednesday, April 9, 2025, Chirichillo opened up about his gender identity, how his Survivor experience shaped his path, and the ongoing journey toward embracing himself fully.

    Chirichillo, who became widely recognized during Survivor: Season 47, initially found himself labeled as nonbinary by viewers and media outlets when the first promos for the season were released. Despite feeling uncertain about the label, Chirichillo said he played along. In his essay, he explains how this public designation left him grappling with his identity and the expectations of others.

    “Throughout all of this sudden visibility, a large part of me has wanted to be palatable to everyone, maybe to counteract my polarizing character on the show,” Chirichillo wrote. “Brushing off the pronoun question with a ‘whatever you want’ makes the moment pass quicker. Increasingly, people decide to use ‘they,’ as my presentation fits that of a Gen Z nonbinary person in an almost comically on-the-nose way. My haircut, my curated vintage fashion, my flat chest.”

    He continued, revealing his feelings about being constantly labeled by others rather than being able to share his story on his own terms. “The pronoun question, I’ve come to learn, isn’t always intended to be a catalyst into an in-the-weeds conversation about gender. It’s to make sure that whatever word they say next doesn’t offend me,” Chirichillo explained. “And so answering with a ‘whatever’ feels easier than derailing our conversation into the personalized gender studies curriculum that cycles through my head almost constantly.”

    Teeny Chirichillo. Photo: Robert Voets/CBS
    Teeny Chirichillo. Photo: Robert Voets/CBS

    A Journey to Self-Awareness

    Chirichillo’s decision to publicly embrace his identity came after significant introspection. As the Survivor filming concluded, Chirichillo found himself without distractions like a spouse or a full-time career. He spent this time reflecting on his gender and the course of his life, eventually coming to terms with who he truly was.

    “When I think about my future, there’s a lot of blurriness,” he wrote. “But there’s a lifelong accumulation of artifacts that has pulled my identity into focus, inside the museum of my own transness. The growing stack of trans memoirs on my nightstand, the packers hidden in a shoebox, the late high school nights of Miles McKenna YouTube videos.”

    Chirichillo noted his childhood experiences, from his attempts to write stories from a male perspective on Wattpad to learning about masculinity through his interactions with others. “The tboys in my phone teaching me how to crop my shirts for a more masculine fit, the pursuit of HRT [hormone replacement therapy] before the government makes it impossible to get, the way my girlfriend affirms me as a man in every sense I could have ever dreamed of,” he wrote.

    Reflecting on his life up to that point, Chirichillo admitted that he had always known who he truly was. He just hadn’t been ready to fully admit it to himself. “I have lived this double life, where my inner world is at peace and aware of how I want to grow older and my outer world remains in this label limbo brought upon by me,” Chirichillo shared. “My noncommitment to a label like nonbinary and my lack of attachment to the policing of my own pronouns is because until right now, I had been a closeted trans guy.”

    The Struggles of Coming Out

    While Chirichillo feels a profound sense of relief in embracing his true self, the process of coming out publicly is not without its challenges. In his Cosmopolitan essay, he shared his concerns about how coming out will affect his relationships with friends and family, as well as the potential societal reactions.

    “I’m thinking about having to come out in loud bars and on the first days of new jobs,” he admitted. “I’m thinking about my grandma reading this and her wondering if it means I’ll have a mustache next Christmas. I’m thinking about the flinches on my friends’ faces after they slip up and say ‘she.’ I’m thinking about how my mom and dad won’t be able to call me their daughter without the air in the room turning cold. I’m thinking about how my queer girlfriend is going to navigate talking about me as her boyfriend.”

    Chirichillo also expressed anxiety about the cost of transitioning, particularly the financial burden of testosterone treatments, and the challenges of adapting to his new identity in everyday life. “I’m thinking about whether passing as a cis man is even something I want,” he confessed. “I’m thinking about all the trans people who have been brave enough to live in their authenticity through the horrors of our past and current political state and how much I admire and thank them for paving the way for me.”

    Living Authentically

    Despite the uncertainties and challenges that lie ahead, Chirichillo is hopeful about the future. He feels a deep sense of peace now that he is able to live authentically for the first time in his life.

    “I don’t expect everyone to reach the same level of ease with my gender that I’ve arrived at after a lifetime of suppressing and then exploring the boyhood in my soul,” Chirichillo wrote. “But I know who I am. Now begins the process of bridging the gap between my private and public identities, of surrendering myself to the fact that trying to please everyone as this moldable gender putty isn’t pleasing me. And it’s not what anyone is asking of me.”

    Chirichillo ended his essay with a heartfelt note of self-acceptance. “As I adjust to life on the flip side of living one childhood dream, what I really want is to give the Teeny who wore all Tony Hawk line boy clothes to elementary school a fist bump and tell him that we’re back.”

    Through his journey of self-discovery, Chirichillo has become a beacon of authenticity for others in the LGBTQ+ community, showing that, while the path may be difficult, embracing who you truly are is always worth it.

  • Matt Bomer Reflects on Being Outed by Tabloids: ‘It Felt Unfair… That Narrative Was Stolen’

    Matt Bomer Reflects on Being Outed by Tabloids: ‘It Felt Unfair… That Narrative Was Stolen’

    Matt Bomer has opened up about his early experiences in the entertainment industry, revealing how the media’s treatment of him during the early stages of his career felt “unfair.” In a candid interview on the Dinner’s on Me podcast with Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Bomer reflected on the pressure he faced when his personal life became fodder for gossip columns before he had a chance to share his own story on his own terms.

    Bomer, now 46, recalled how the media, particularly celebrity gossip outlets like Perez Hilton, took control of his narrative in ways he had no say in. “Folks could kind of take over your own personal narrative before you even had a chance to,” he explained. “Outlets like Perez Hilton were so quick to talk about my personal life before I had ever had a chance to even do it myself. And it wasn’t because I didn’t want to; I didn’t even have an opportunity to.”

    The actor, who publicly came out as gay during a 2012 awards speech, explained that by that time, rumors about his sexuality had already circulated widely in the media. He recalled how outlets were keen to fuel speculation but unwilling to give him a platform to speak out. “No media outlet was ever going like, ‘Hey!’” he added, suggesting that while the rumors about him made headlines, his voice was seldom heard in the conversation. “I just didn’t have a career that warranted that,” he continued. “It felt kind of unfair to me, that that was stolen by people who did have a microphone at the time.”

    Bomer’s decision to publicly come out in 2012 was a moment of personal empowerment. He used his platform to introduce his husband, publicist Simon Halls, and their three children as his “proudest accomplishment.” Yet, long before he publicly acknowledged his sexuality, Bomer had already been a target for gossip, particularly in the tabloid culture that thrived in the late 2000s and early 2010s.

    One significant personal story Bomer shared was how he was told that being outed prematurely cost him a role in the 2013 film Superman: Man of Steel, which was directed by Brett Ratner. Although Bomer was not cast as Superman, the role eventually went to Henry Cavill, Bomer’s career continued to rise in other directions.

    Struggles with Hollywood’s Image of Masculinity

    While Bomer’s career began to flourish in the early 2010s, thanks to a standout role in the USA Network series White Collar and a high-profile appearance in the Magic Mike film franchise, he quickly found himself being pigeonholed into roles that aligned with traditional ideas of masculinity. “I didn’t have anything to fall back on,” he said of his early career. Despite this, Bomer noted that his strong family support provided him with a sense of security. “What I had was a loving family,” he explained. “That was my safety net. And I was like, you know what? If the worst that happens is that I don’t work again and I have this beautiful family who I love and who loves me, then so be it.”

    Bomer’s rise in Hollywood was not without its challenges. The industry’s reluctance to embrace openly gay actors for leading roles in mainstream films meant Bomer faced significant obstacles in his early years. However, in the years following his decision to come out, Bomer began to receive more recognition for his talent, finding new opportunities to break away from traditional roles and explore more complex characters.

    A Changing Landscape in Hollywood

    Over the years, Bomer’s career trajectory has included diverse roles that allow him to explore both his acting and his identity as a queer man. One of his notable projects in recent years has been Fellow Travelers, a historical drama series set against the backdrop of 1950s politics. The series delves into the emotional toll that living in the closet takes on LGBTQ individuals, particularly in a time when homosexuality was often criminalized or vilified.

    Speaking about his character, Hawk, in Fellow Travelers, Bomer noted that the role offered him an opportunity to explore a character with a public persona he had to maintain while secretly embracing a more rebellious side. “Hawk does have a public persona that he needs to survive and maneuver in the world that he’s in, but underneath it all is a real ‘f— you,’” Bomer said in a 2023 interview with Entertainment Weekly. He described the opportunity to portray this complex character as “refreshing,” adding that it felt equally important to depict authentic and honest portrayals of gay intimacy in a way that was “unflinching.”

    In his portrayal of Hawk, Bomer is able to tap into the nuances of being a gay man in a time of societal pressure, offering a glimpse into the internal conflicts many LGBTQ individuals experience as they navigate a world that often demands conformity. Fellow Travelers has allowed Bomer to bring to life an aspect of queer experience that has often been glossed over in mainstream media.

    A Reflective Bomer Looks Back

    Looking back on his journey, Bomer reflected on the ways in which Hollywood has shifted its approach to LGBTQ+ representation, though challenges remain. The increasing number of openly queer actors in mainstream film and television is a step forward, but as Bomer himself points out, the industry is still far from perfect.

    “I just wanted to be honest about who I was,” Bomer said during his conversation with Ferguson. He admitted that while his sexuality had been speculated about, he never intended to hide it. His 2012 speech was an act of reclaiming his narrative, a declaration that he was in control of how he presented his identity.

    As for the media’s treatment of him, Bomer seems to have found peace in his own journey. While he still feels the weight of how the media tried to control his narrative early on, he’s now in a place where he can reflect with clarity and gratitude for the family that has supported him and the career that continues to evolve.

    Bomer’s experience highlights not only the challenges LGBTQ+ actors face in the entertainment industry but also the resilience required to overcome those barriers. Today, Bomer continues to use his platform to advocate for queer representation and to ensure that the next generation of LGBTQ+ performers won’t have to face the same struggles he did.

    His reflections, shared on the Dinner’s on Me podcast, offer a candid and introspective look at the changing landscape of Hollywood and the importance of owning one’s own narrative in an industry still working toward full acceptance of LGBTQ+ talent.

  • Lucy Dacus and MUNA’s Katie Gavin Pay Homage to Iconic ’90s Magazine Cover

    Lucy Dacus and MUNA’s Katie Gavin Pay Homage to Iconic ’90s Magazine Cover

    Lucy Dacus and Katie Gavin, lead singer of MUNA, have brought us a powerful tribute to sapphic history, recreating one of the most iconic magazine covers from the ’90s. The duo graces the April 2025 cover of Alternative Press, bringing a modern twist to the 1993 Vanity Fair cover featuring k.d. lang and Cindy Crawford.

    For the recreation, Dacus, known for her introspective lyrics and powerful vocals, adopts a bold menswear look, lounging in a barber’s chair, while Gavin, exuding a mix of sass and confidence, stands poised in a swimsuit and boots, razor in hand, ready to give Dacus a shave. The image evokes a powerful sense of gender subversion, paying tribute to the original cover that challenged societal expectations and celebrated queer representation in pop culture.

    This nod to the past is not just a stylish visual callback; it serves as a poignant reminder of the strides that have been made in queer visibility while also emphasizing the ongoing relevance of the conversation about gender, attraction, and identity.

     

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    A Moment in Queer History

    The original Vanity Fair cover, shot 32 years ago, was groundbreaking for its time. Featuring lang and Crawford, the image was a bold statement that subverted traditional gender roles. It came at a time when LGBTQ+ visibility was limited, and being openly queer was still a controversial and often taboo subject, especially in the mainstream media. The cover, with its mix of butch-femme imagery, helped challenge long-standing stereotypes and paved the way for more inclusive representations of sexuality in the years to come.

    At that point, lesbian representation was often minimized or outright ignored, and the idea of queer public figures was still novel. The fact that Vanity Fair embraced such an image was revolutionary, offering a rare space where butch-femme dynamics could be seen without shame. The cover’s impact was felt in the wider cultural landscape, where even subtle representations of queerness were met with resistance. This was just a few years before Laura Dern’s career took a hit for guest-starring in an episode of Ellen in which her character came out as a lesbian—a moment that temporarily derailed her career.

    Vanity Fair cover with k.d. lang and Cindy Crawford.
    Vanity Fair cover with k.d. lang and Cindy Crawford.

    Fast forward three decades, and the reimagining by Dacus and Gavin brings back a sense of nostalgia, while also highlighting how much has changed—and how much still needs to change. In a political climate increasingly hostile to LGBTQ+ rights, the image provides a stark contrast to the current wave of anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric and legislation sweeping across parts of the world, particularly in the United States.

    A Powerful Statement for the Present Day

    Both Dacus and Gavin have long been vocal about their queerness, using their platforms to challenge societal norms and create space for LGBTQ+ individuals in the music industry. Dacus, known for her introspective indie rock, and Gavin, the frontwoman of the indie-pop group MUNA, have both carved out significant niches for themselves, unapologetically expressing their queerness through their music and personal lives.

    For them to channel lang and Crawford’s iconic cover feels like more than just a simple homage—it’s a continuation of an ongoing conversation about gender and sexual identity that has persisted over decades. The recreation of this cover is an intentional, thought-provoking moment that shows how far queer representation has come, while also underscoring the challenges that continue to persist, especially as anti-LGBTQ+ sentiment rises.

    The juxtaposition of the cover’s release in 2025, during a time when LGBTQ+ issues are under attack, only adds layers to its meaning. The photo offers a visual reminder that queer joy, history, and art will continue to thrive, regardless of those who seek to diminish or erase them. It’s a defiant statement that queer culture and visibility are here to stay, pushing back against the current political tides and ensuring that the voices of LGBTQ+ individuals will remain strong and proud.

    Timeless Style, Timeless Message

    On a purely aesthetic level, Dacus and Gavin’s recreation of the Vanity Fair cover highlights something that remains true despite societal shifts: a well-tailored suit, a bold lip, and a bit of playful subtext will never go out of style. The striking nature of the image is timeless, offering a visual punch that subverts expectations and challenges norms, while embracing a joyful expression of queerness.

    The duo’s decision to take on this cover in 2025 also speaks to the broader culture of reclaiming and redefining symbols of queerness. As more LGBTQ+ artists take up space in the mainstream, these kinds of images become increasingly important in shaping a culture of acceptance and pride.

    A Powerful Legacy of Representation

    Dacus and Gavin’s tribute to lang and Crawford serves not only as a nod to an iconic moment in queer history but also as a call to action—reminding us that the fight for visibility and acceptance is ongoing. The image serves as a celebration of both how far the queer community has come and how much work remains to be done.

    The resurgence of this image at a time when queer rights are increasingly under attack is a powerful form of resistance. It’s a statement of defiance, a reaffirmation of the importance of queer representation, and a celebration of the diversity of identities within the LGBTQ+ community.

    In the end, this recreation is more than a stylish homage; it’s a bold declaration that the conversation about gender, sexuality, and identity is far from over. Just as lang and Crawford’s original cover changed the landscape of queer representation in 1993, Dacus and Gavin’s 2025 recreation continues to push boundaries, making a statement for the present while honoring the past.

    The Alternative Press cover featuring Dacus and Gavin is a visual reminder that queer history is rich, vibrant, and enduring—and it’s not going anywhere, no matter the challenges it faces.

  • Billie Jean King Receives Historic Star on Hollywood Walk of Fame in Sports Entertainment

    Billie Jean King Receives Historic Star on Hollywood Walk of Fame in Sports Entertainment

    Billie Jean King, a groundbreaking figure in the world of tennis and LGBTQ+ advocacy, has made history once again. The 81-year-old tennis legend has become the first woman to receive a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in the newly established sports entertainment category. The prestigious honor was unveiled on Monday in a special ceremony attended by King’s close friends, NBA icon Magic Johnson, Academy Award-winning actress Jamie Lee Curtis, and her wife, Ilana Kloss.

    In a moving speech at the event, King reflected on her journey and the significance of the milestone. “The important thing is, I don’t want to be the last one,” King told the crowd, acknowledging both her personal achievement and the ongoing fight for equality in sports and entertainment.

    King’s star, the 2,807th to be installed on the Walk of Fame, is located near the intersection of Hollywood and Vine, directly across from the Pantages Theatre. To commemorate the occasion, the marquee of the historic theater displayed the message: “A star for a star. Congratulations Billie Jean King.”

    A Legendary Career and Advocacy for Equality

    Billie Jean King’s journey in sports is nothing short of legendary. Over the course of her career, she amassed an impressive 39 Grand Slam titles, cementing her place as one of tennis’ all-time greats. However, her legacy extends far beyond her achievements on the court. King’s impact on gender equality in sports is profound, and she remains a champion for equal pay and recognition of female athletes.

    One of King’s most iconic moments came in 1973 when she defeated Bobby Riggs in a highly publicized match dubbed the “Battle of the Sexes.” The match, which drew an audience of approximately 50 million viewers, became a defining moment for women’s sports. It is still considered the most-watched tennis match in history and is often viewed as a pivotal event in the fight for gender equality in sports.

    Throughout her career, King was a vocal advocate for equal pay, particularly at major tennis tournaments. In 1972, after winning the U.S. Open, she discovered that the women’s singles champion earned $15,000 less than the men’s winner. King used her influence to push for change, threatening not to compete in the tournament the following year unless the prize money for both genders was equalized. Her efforts led to lasting changes in tennis and inspired future generations of female athletes.

    Personal Life and Advocacy

    Billie Jean King’s personal life has also been a trailblazing aspect of her legacy. She married Larry King (no relation to the television host) in 1964, but in 1981, she came out as a lesbian after an affair with her secretary, Marilyn Barnett, was threatened to be publicly exposed. King’s decision to publicly embrace her sexuality was a bold move at a time when LGBTQ+ visibility was minimal in the sports world.

    Her marriage to Larry King officially ended in 1987, after which she fell in love with Ilana Kloss, her former doubles partner. Despite the end of her marriage, King and Larry King remained close friends. Billie Jean King and Ilana Kloss later married in a private ceremony in 2018, and the couple publicly shared the news in 2021.

    King’s commitment to advocating for LGBTQ+ rights extended beyond her own personal journey. In 2000, she became the first openly lesbian coach of the United States women’s tennis team. She has also been a champion for women’s sports, founding both the Women’s Tennis Association (WTA) and the Women’s Sports Foundation, two organizations dedicated to promoting gender equality in athletics.

    Honors and Recognition

    Throughout her career, Billie Jean King has received numerous accolades for her contributions to sports and society. In 2009, she was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom, one of the highest civilian honors in the United States. In 2024, she received the Congressional Gold Medal, further cementing her legacy as one of the most influential figures in the history of sports.

    King’s recognition on the Hollywood Walk of Fame is yet another testament to her enduring impact on both sports and society. It is also a reflection of the broader cultural shift toward honoring the contributions of women, LGBTQ+ individuals, and advocates for equality.

    In a post-ceremony interview, Magic Johnson, a longtime friend of King, praised her for being not only a sports legend but also a trailblazer for the LGBTQ+ community. “Billie Jean changed the game for women in sports, and she’s still making an impact today,” Johnson said. “She’s an inspiration to all of us, and it’s great to see her receive this well-deserved recognition.”

    Oscar-winning actress Jamie Lee Curtis also spoke to the significance of the moment. “Billie Jean King is not just a tennis icon,” Curtis said. “She’s a symbol of courage, equality, and perseverance. This star represents everything she has given to the world, both on and off the court.”

    A Lasting Legacy

    Billie Jean King’s Hollywood Walk of Fame star is a fitting tribute to her groundbreaking achievements, both as an athlete and as an advocate for change. Her contributions to sports and equality will continue to inspire future generations of athletes, especially women and LGBTQ+ individuals, who strive to break down barriers and make their voices heard.

    As King herself said during the ceremony, her hope is that she won’t be the last woman to receive a star in the new sports entertainment category. With her unwavering commitment to equality, it’s clear that Billie Jean King’s legacy will continue to inspire and pave the way for others to follow in her footsteps.

    Billie Jean King’s story is one of persistence, resilience, and the fight for fairness, making her place on the Hollywood Walk of Fame not just an honor for her career, but a milestone for all those who have been inspired by her trailblazing path.

  • Here Are Some Best Reactions to When The Internet Piled on J.K. Rowling After She Criticizing Asexuality

    Here Are Some Best Reactions to When The Internet Piled on J.K. Rowling After She Criticizing Asexuality

    J.K. Rowling, best known for her Harry Potter series and more recently for her controversial stance on transgender issues, has found herself at the center of another social media storm, this time over a comment she made about asexuality. On April 6, the author took to X (formerly Twitter) to criticize the observance of International Asexuality Day, a day meant to raise awareness about asexuality—a sexual orientation in which individuals do not experience sexual attraction to others.

    In her post, Rowling dismissed the day, writing, “Happy International Fake Oppression Day to everyone who wants complete strangers to know they don’t fancy a shag.” She accompanied her message with an infographic from Switchboard, a UK-based LGBTQ+ support organization. The graphic shared basic information about asexuality and is intended to help people understand the orientation, but Rowling’s tweet seemed to mock the day, its participants, and the community it aims to support.

    While the infographic offered no suggestion of oppression or divisiveness, Rowling’s interpretation of it was negative, sparking widespread backlash from those in the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. Many pointed out that the graphic simply provided a straightforward explanation of what it means to be asexual, with no overt political or social commentary attached.

    Rowling’s Comment Draws Quick Criticism

    Rowling’s tweet quickly drew a flurry of criticism, with many accusing her of being unnecessarily cruel and dismissive of a marginalized group. Despite her controversial views on transgender issues, her decision to target asexual individuals seemed to surprise even some of her most vocal critics. As many pointed out, the asexuality awareness campaign is a space for individuals to share their identities and experiences without judgment, yet Rowling’s comment felt like another attack from the author, whose recent public persona has been defined by her vocal opposition to transgender rights.

    The author, who has 14.3 million followers on X, also engaged with some of the comments supporting her post, adding sarcastic and combative responses. In one exchange, Rowling appeared to question the validity of asexuality, suggesting that asexual people may not be able to determine whether they are gay or straight. This seemed to underline her lack of understanding of the asexual experience, as many who identify as asexual do, in fact, have clear romantic and sexual identities that simply do not include sexual attraction.

    The response to her remarks came swiftly, with many pointing out the irony of Rowling’s lack of awareness about asexuality and its complexities. While some took issue with her mocking tone, others noted that her attack on asexuality was merely the latest in a series of targeted comments aimed at different corners of the LGBTQ+ community.

    Memes and Jokes Poke Fun at Rowling’s Remarks

    As expected, the internet quickly turned Rowling’s comments into a meme-worthy moment. Twitter users flooded the platform with humorous reactions to the author’s comments, using memes and satire to make light of her statement.

    “Us asexuals literally just minding our business. J.K. Rowling: AND YOU KNOW WHAT F*CK Y’ALL TOO,” one user wrote, encapsulating the frustration of those who felt unnecessarily attacked by the author. Other responses included mocking images, such as one where people joked about Rowling being told by “the mold” in her house to go after asexuals next. “J.K. Rowling killing the black mold in her house (it can reproduce asexually),” one user quipped, poking fun at her latest target in a light-hearted, albeit pointed, manner.

    Many comments reflected the absurdity of Rowling’s stance, with people calling out her consistent pattern of going after minorities, especially those within the LGBTQ+ community. “Anyone who’s not a cishet: [exists] JKR:” read another tweet, which highlighted the apparent inconsistency in Rowling’s selective critiques of different marginalized groups.

    Even more biting commentary pointed to Rowling’s apparent lack of comprehension when it comes to basic human relationships. One meme showed an image of Rowling as a “mould cultivator” who, ironically, didn’t understand the concept of romantic love or human connection outside of sexual attraction. “Renowned children’s author and rare mould cultivator Joan K. Rowling does not understand the concept of Romantic Love,” one user wrote, poking fun at her seeming disconnect from the complexities of human experience.

    The Author’s Ongoing Controversy

    J.K. Rowling has long been a polarizing figure, especially after her vocal opposition to aspects of transgender rights. Her statements on transgender issues sparked widespread condemnation from activists, fans, and the LGBTQ+ community, but it also garnered support from individuals who aligned with her views. However, her latest foray into criticizing asexuality has only added fuel to the fire, reinforcing the image of an author who seems intent on targeting various groups of marginalized individuals.

    Many of those responding to Rowling’s latest comments noted the irony of her actions. In 2024, she responded to accusations of transphobia by claiming that she was an advocate for the rights of women and children. Yet, in the wake of her comments about asexuality, many have pointed out that her consistent pattern of dividing and mocking people within the LGBTQ+ community doesn’t seem aligned with any genuine desire to support marginalized groups.

    Her recent post on International Asexuality Day stands as a stark reminder that Rowling’s brand of activism seems more focused on antagonizing and criticizing those who don’t conform to her worldview rather than fostering understanding or empathy.

    As backlash continues to grow, the question remains whether J.K. Rowling will ever take a step back from her ongoing campaign of controversy. Despite the widespread criticism, her loyal followers continue to rally behind her, defending her right to express her opinions. However, the broader LGBTQ+ community, including both asexual and transgender advocates, continues to call her out for what they view as harmful rhetoric.

    The larger cultural conversation surrounding Rowling’s views seems far from over, as each new post on her social media platforms invites more debate and more calls for accountability. Whether she will adjust her approach to these complex issues or double down on her controversial statements remains to be seen.

    For now, it’s clear that Rowling’s latest comments have further alienated her from a growing segment of the public, while memes and jokes about her perceived ignorance of asexuality and LGBTQ+ issues continue to circulate online. As International Asexuality Day reminds the world of the importance of recognizing all sexual orientations, J.K. Rowling’s recent comments serve as a reminder of the ongoing struggle for visibility, respect, and understanding for marginalized communities.