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  • Antoni Porowski Opens Up About International Dishes for His New Series ‘No Taste Like Home’

    Antoni Porowski Opens Up About International Dishes for His New Series ‘No Taste Like Home’

    Antoni Porowski, the celebrated Queer Eye food expert and beloved public figure, is embarking on a new adventure in his latest project, No Taste Like Home, a travel and food documentary series streaming on Nat Geo. The series takes Porowski beyond the makeover realm of Queer Eye, delving into his passion for food, culture, and human connections across the globe. Alongside famous guests such as James Marsden, Awkwafina, Florence Pugh, and Issa Rae, Porowski explores culinary traditions, ancestral histories, and the shared bonds of food. This venture also serves as a personal journey for Porowski as he reflects on his own family heritage and the power of food in connecting people from all walks of life.

    From Historical Fashion to Timeless Comfort

    While his culinary expertise takes center stage in No Taste Like Home, Porowski’s personal style remains a key component of his public persona. For his recent Out digital cover, Porowski opened up about the fashion principles he follows, which he learned early on from stylist Chloe Hartstein. Two key guidelines inform his approach to dressing: reference and timeless comfort.

    The first guideline is all about historical references. “If you give me a historical reference, I fully get excited,” Porowski admits speaking to Out. He fondly recalls an outfit inspired by Seinfeld‘s Kramer — a bold-striped knit polo paired with an avocado cardigan that he wore to an event celebrating the anniversary of the moon landing, hosted by Omega. The look reflected both his love for playful fashion and his penchant for incorporating elements of nostalgia into his wardrobe.

    The second rule of thumb is “timeless comfort,” a style ethos that focuses on wearing clothing that transcends trends. “Whatever you’re wearing, try to picture it framed in your house,” he says. “In 10 years from now, when you look back on it, how are you gonna feel?” For Porowski, the key to comfortable style lies in balancing aesthetics with practicality. He also credits the power of tailoring and accessories, particularly belts, which help to give structure and proportion to his frame.

    For his Out fashion shoot, styled by Marcus Allen, Porowski embraced 90s nostalgia. He referenced how his sisters’ fashion choices influenced him growing up, mixing vintage pieces with contemporary designers like Willy Chavarria and Ralph Lauren. The shoot was a nostalgic trip back in time, featuring accessories like a CD player and an N64 controller — items he was never allowed to have as a child. Porowski was not permitted to play video games as a youngster because his parents thought they were too violent, but now he enjoys living out those childhood dreams, using fashion as a form of playful self-expression.

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    Antoni Poroswki for Out. Photo: Matt Monath 

    A Journey Back to the Past — and the Present

    While Porowski’s style may reflect his personal history, it’s his new docuseries, No Taste Like Home, that offers viewers a deeper dive into the concept of home, family, and tradition. The show focuses on exploring the culinary roots of his celebrity guests as they trace their ancestry and reconnect with their heritage. Throughout the series, guests like Marsden, Awkwafina, and Pugh visit their ancestral homelands to discover long-lost recipes and uncover family secrets tied to food.

    For Porowski, the show is a chance to take his love for food and travel to new heights, combining his deep appreciation for culture with his talent for storytelling. “I’ve always loved travel,” Porowski shares. “Queer Eye afforded me the life beyond my wildest dreams, and I get to connect with other people and just tell human stories using food as a vehicle.” As the host of No Taste Like Home, he takes guests on an emotional journey that blends food, genealogy, human migration, and history. “To quote my therapist,” he adds, “diversity exposure is probably one of the most important things that we can all benefit from.”

    One of the central themes of No Taste Like Home is hiraeth, a Welsh term that Porowski encountered while watching Nothing Left Unsaid, a documentary about Anderson Cooper and Gloria Vanderbilt. Hiraeth doesn’t have a direct translation in English but represents a feeling of longing for a place that may never have been, a nostalgia for a home that exists in memory or dreams rather than reality. In many ways, the series taps into this concept as celebrity guests connect with their ancestral pasts, unlocking memories and emotions tied to food and family.

    As he guides his guests on their ancestral explorations, Porowski also reflects on his own family history. A Montreal native with Polish roots, Porowski learned the value of food preservation from his grandparents, two Polish survivors of concentration camps. They instilled in their family the importance of never wasting food, a value that deeply influences Porowski’s culinary philosophy today.

    For him, food is more than just nourishment — it’s a bridge to the past, a link to generations that came before him. One of the foods that reminds him of home is borscht, the classic Polish soup. “What tastes like home to me is a clear borscht paired with uszka — tiny Polish dumplings filled with wild mushrooms that my family forages,” he says. “But because it’s me, I would add a dollop of full-fat sour cream and chives, not dill. I know I’m Polish. I don’t like dill — except in pickles or if it’s cooked in a stew.”

    Exploring the World and Embracing Diversity

    Through his travels on No Taste Like Home, Porowski has had some eye-opening experiences, sampling local dishes from various cultures. He recalls eating wild eggplant in the jungles of Borneo, savoring incredible fish on the Senegalese coastline, and waking up to the sounds of Islamic chants in the morning. These experiences have helped shape his views on cultural exchange and diversity. He believes that exposure to different ways of life is critical to understanding the world, especially in a time when distrust and division are on the rise.

    “If you really get to know someone personally,” Porowski notes, “I guarantee it’s gonna make you so much harder to pass any preconceived notions or judgments or have any negative stereotypes.” This principle is especially important to Porowski as he continues his work as part of the Queer Eye Fab Five. In his travels, he emphasizes that these personal stories allow people to connect on a deeper level, fostering empathy and understanding.

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    Antoni Poroswki for Out. Photo: Matt Monath

    Porowski sees the power of these connections firsthand, particularly among the LGBTQ+ community. He often encounters families at airports who share that they watch Queer Eye together, giving him the chance to engage with others and challenge stereotypes. “It’s an opportunity, again, to learn about us as individuals,” he says.

    Personal Reflections and Future Dreams

    Despite his ambitious career, Porowski is also looking ahead to a simpler, quieter life. “I really want to have a farm,” he says. “I want a place that I can escape to on the weekends and just breathe and put my phone down. Simplicity is a lot more attractive to me than ever before.” He adds that he hopes to share this dream with someone special, and even envisions having children someday. “I’m a relationship guy through and through,” he admits. “I love meeting the family, the friends, getting to know each other, learning the conflict points, and how to meld.”

    As Porowski continues to embrace his role as a public figure, he’s excited for people to see more of who he truly is outside of Queer Eye. He’s eager to show fans his love for travel, language, and cultural exploration. “I just think, for me, that’s what brings me the most joy,” he says.

    No Taste Like Home is now streaming on Hulu and Disney+, offering a compelling journey through food, culture, and personal history. As Porowski’s fans get to know him on a deeper level, they can look forward to more moments of joy, discovery, and human connection.

  • GLAAD Board Members Peppermint, Frankie Grande, and Others Urge Reality TV to Make Bold Moves for LGBTQ+ Representation

    GLAAD Board Members Peppermint, Frankie Grande, and Others Urge Reality TV to Make Bold Moves for LGBTQ+ Representation

    In a powerful call to action, GLAAD board members Frankie Grande and Peppermint have joined forces with several high-profile figures from the LGBTQ+ community to urge casting directors, producers, and creatives behind reality TV to take a bold step toward authentic inclusivity. Their message calls for fair, accurate, and diverse representation of LGBTQ+ people on reality television, urging the industry to move past outdated and tokenized portrayals.

    In a letter signed by a host of LGBTQ+ celebrities, including Nicole Byer, Michelle Buteau, Bob The Drag Queen, Jazz Jennings, Elliot Page, Monét X Change, and many others, Grande and Peppermint ask for a shift toward more substantial representation of LGBTQ+ lives across reality TV. Their message emphasizes that reality shows should no longer rely on a single LGBTQ+ cast member or storyline to represent the community. Instead, they advocate for a diverse range of LGBTQ+ experiences to be reflected on screen.

     

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    The Push for Inclusive Representation

    Grande, an outspoken advocate for LGBTQ+ rights, expressed the need for change in a statement, saying, “It’s the responsibility of casting directors and producers to ensure that there is inclusivity within our community represented on the show. Otherwise, we’re a monolith. Otherwise, I am representing the entire queer community.” He continued, “There is a formula that has been in place for decades that is no longer working for our community. It is no longer representing the world and the people that are watching your shows.”

    Peppermint, who appeared in season two of The Traitors and made headlines after her early elimination, also underscored the urgency of inclusive representation. After her departure from the show, Peppermint called for industry-wide change, emphasizing the need to showcase the relationships and experiences of trans people in reality television. “I wanted so desperately to be able to show the rest of the world that trans people are just like anybody else,” Peppermint shared. “It’s all about managing relationships, and trans people deserve to be a part of the story. The world needs to see that, and I think reality TV is a great place to do it.”

    Addressing the Gaps in Representation

    Despite the progress made in LGBTQ+ visibility over the years, GLAAD’s research shows that representation in reality television remains stagnant. Too many shows continue to cast a single LGBTQ+ individual or rely on one-dimensional storylines, leading to the outdated and incomplete portrayal of the diverse queer community.

    In their letter, the signatories stress that the current formula no longer resonates with today’s audiences. According to the latest data from Gallup, 9.3% of U.S. adults identify as LGBTQ+, with the largest portion of this group identifying as bisexual. Among Gen Z, a generation known for its diversity and openness, 23% report identifying as LGBTQ+. As these younger viewers become the primary demographic for new TV shows, it is clear that their demand for inclusive content is more pressing than ever.

    The letter points out that reality TV has the power to shape perceptions and ignite conversations. However, to live up to its potential, the industry must reflect the true diversity of society, including the LGBTQ+ community. Representation in reality TV is not only about numbers but also about telling the unique stories and perspectives of LGBTQ+ individuals in an authentic way.

    Representation Matters for Empathy and Change

    GLAAD’s research highlights the significant impact that LGBTQ+ representation in media has on viewers. The organization found that non-LGBTQ+ viewers who see LGBTQ+ people on screen are 50% more likely to feel familiar with the community and 35% more likely to be comfortable interacting with LGBTQ+ individuals in real life. This highlights the importance of visibility in fostering understanding and empathy, especially as anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric and legislation continue to rise.

    The signatories of the letter emphasize that when viewers see LGBTQ+ people living their truth — forming relationships, facing challenges, and celebrating victories — it dismantles stereotypes and promotes acceptance. Reality TV, with its relatable and emotional storytelling, has a unique ability to break down barriers and create meaningful connections.

    By increasing LGBTQ+ visibility, reality television has the potential to combat misinformation, hate, and even violence. The signatories believe that showcasing authentic LGBTQ+ experiences on screen not only entertains but also contributes to a broader societal shift toward inclusivity.

    The Need for Action Behind the Scenes

    While the letter advocates for more LGBTQ+ representation on screen, it also calls for action behind the scenes. The signatories urge producers, casting directors, and creatives to ensure that LGBTQ+ cast members receive the necessary support both during and after production. They emphasize that the risks of isolation and tokenization for LGBTQ+ individuals on reality shows can be detrimental, especially for transgender and gender-nonconforming participants.

    “When one person’s queerness or transness is placed at the center of the show, it places an undue burden on that cast member,” the letter notes. “The experience of being the sole representative for an entire community can be isolating, leaving that person vulnerable to online and real-world harassment.”

    The signatories also urge that transgender people, in particular, be portrayed in ways that go beyond stereotypes. This means casting multiple transgender individuals on shows, allowing them to tell their own unique stories, and avoiding the harmful practice of making one individual’s experience representative of the entire community. For nonbinary and transgender people of color, the challenges of navigating gendered and binary casting are even more pronounced, further highlighting the need for more inclusive and thoughtful casting.

    The Power of Reality TV to Lead Change

    The letter concludes by urging the reality TV industry to embrace a more inclusive future, one that moves beyond tokenism and reflects the true diversity of the LGBTQ+ community. Shows like RuPaul’s Drag Race, Queer Eye, and Selling Sunset have already demonstrated the value of LGBTQ+ representation, with their success proving that diverse stories resonate with audiences.

    “Let’s move beyond tokenism and commit to casting LGBTQ+ people in numbers that truly reflect our community,” the letter states. “Let’s use the power of reality TV to make the world a more accepting, understanding, and real place.”

    With industry-wide education and action, the signatories believe that reality TV can play a key role in shaping a more inclusive future. They call on the producers, casting directors, and creatives behind these shows to take bold steps toward a more diverse and authentic representation of LGBTQ+ lives on television.

    For a full list of signatories and more information on GLAAD’s efforts to support LGBTQ+ visibility in media, visit their official website.

  • Bob The Drag Queen Says She Will Not Be Watching ‘Traitors’ Castmember Dorinda Medley’s Upcoming Bravo Spinoff Show

    Bob The Drag Queen Says She Will Not Be Watching ‘Traitors’ Castmember Dorinda Medley’s Upcoming Bravo Spinoff Show

    The Traitors season three ended with explosive drama, and the reunion episode delivered everything fans hoped for and more, especially when it came to the clash between Bob The Drag Queen and Real Housewives star Dorinda Medley. And now, Bob The Drag Queen is speaking when it comes to whether or not she will be watching Dorinda’s upcoming Bravo spinoff.

    When asked about rewatching the finale of The Traitors, Bob candidly shared their thoughts. “I wish Danielle had won. I can’t believe Brittany did that,” Bob said. Despite the disappointment, Bob found the reunion episode to be a fun experience, adding, “I feel like I showed myself, I looked beautiful, I felt beautiful, and I had a good time. Stunning.”

    Dorinda, an early vote out for the series, went home early and made quite the spectacle during the series reunion with the drag queen. When asked at the Queerties if Bob would be tuning in to the Bravo star’s recently announced spin off series after the on air dispute, the drag queen remained honest: “I don’t really watch reality TV shows unless they have competition in them, like Real Housewives or shows with a prize. So, I probably won’t watch it, to be honest.”

    Bob’s directness didn’t stop there. Despite not being desperate to talk to the individual in question after the reunion, Bob said, “If she called, I’d answer for sure,” hinting that they were open to a conversation if the situation arose.

     

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    The Dramatic Reunion Showdown

    The tension was palpable during the reunion as Bob faced off with Dorinda Medley and fellow Real Housewives star Chanel Ayan. What started as a casual exchange quickly turned into a battle of words. Ayan, dressed in a fabulous look, tried to shade Bob as she walked into the room, only for Bob to respond effortlessly with, “a close second.” However, the real drama kicked off when Dorinda attempted to guilt Bob for simply playing the game.

    “I was very sad that I got murdered, but the whole thing [you said after] that I was mad, I can promise you I didn’t think about it,” Dorinda expressed, adding that she had even called reunion host Andy Cohen after filming to cry. “I liked you and I really wanted to get to know you. So this negativity after the fact was really unfortunate,” she said, attempting to shame Bob for playing the game unapologetically.

    Bob’s response was sharp and unapologetic. “I don’t know any of these people. You’re the only one taking that personally,” Bob said, calling out Dorinda’s attempt to control the narrative. The queen, who has been known for her quick wit, didn’t let Dorinda continue to talk over her. “Are you capable of not talking while I am talking?” Bob asked, prompting Cohen to jump in with a hilarious remark: “She doesn’t like to be on pause,” referencing Medley’s Real Housewives tenure when she was famously “put on pause.”

    Bob then delivered a savage blow, saying, “I assure you Dorinda — and this is no shade to anyone here — I have never, ever had to try to make someone else diminish so that I could have stage time or screen time. No shade, I have been a star on every TV show I’ve ever been on.” This remark further solidified Bob’s place at the center of the reunion drama.

    Bob The Drag Queen’s Relatable and Unapologetic Confidence

    One of the key elements that made Bob’s performance so captivating throughout The Traitors and the reunion was her genuine confidence and unapologetic queerness. In a world where queer visibility is still constantly being threatened, Bob’s refusal to shrink for anyone — not even a Real Housewives legend like Dorinda Medley — was a powerful statement.

    In an interview before the season aired, Bob admitted she didn’t know much about the cast when she first arrived on set. “The truth is, I didn’t know who any of them were! I did not know a single one of those people, and I’m not being shady. That’s just me being honest!” she said. Bob’s honesty was refreshing, and it made for one of the most entertaining seasons of The Traitors.

    At the reunion, Bob didn’t just stand her ground — she claimed her space. Bob’s message was clear: she wouldn’t allow anyone, not even Medley or Ayan, to overshadow her. When Ayan accused Bob of being jealous, Bob quickly shut it down with her signature humor. “When your comedy special comes out, I’ll be the first one to watch it. I already have two out right now,” she quipped, leaving Ayan speechless.

    Looking Forward: What’s Next for Bob The Drag Queen?

    With a new book, Harriet Tubman: Live in Concert out now and a future tour ahead, Bob The Drag Queen shows no signs of slowing down. Fans can expect to see more of Bob’s unapologetic brilliance on stage and on screen. Her success on The Traitors and in her career beyond reality TV is a testament to the power of queer artistry, and with her ongoing rise, the world is taking notice.

    As for Dorinda, her rivalry with Bob during the reunion only cemented the queen’s status as a drag powerhouse. While the drama might have been uncomfortable for some, it was undeniable that Bob The Drag Queen stole the show, leaving audiences cheering for more.

  • Seven Plead Not Guilty to Charges in Killing of Transgender Man Sam Nordquist

    Seven Plead Not Guilty to Charges in Killing of Transgender Man Sam Nordquist

    Seven people, including Sam Nordquist’s former partner, pleaded not guilty Tuesday to a slew of charges related to the brutal killing of the 24-year-old Black transgender man, who authorities say was tortured and held captive in an upstate New York hotel room for over a month before succumbing to his injuries.

    Nordquist’s former partner, Precious Arzuaga, 38, and six others — Thomas Eaves, 21; Quijano, 30; Sage, 33; Goodwin, 30; Kimberly Sochia, 29; and Emily Motyka, 19 — each face a range of charges, including first-degree murder, second-degree murder, kidnapping, conspiracy, endangering the welfare of a child, and concealment of a human corpse. If convicted of first-degree murder, the defendants could face life in prison without the possibility of parole.

    Arzuaga, along with four other defendants, also pleaded not guilty to charges of aggravated sexual abuse. Arzuaga additionally faces a charge of coercion.

    The defendants’ indictment, issued last week, outlines the horrific abuse Nordquist allegedly endured from Jan. 1 to Feb. 2, which included severe physical violence and forced acts of degradation. Prosecutors say Nordquist was starved, beaten, and subjected to a range of sadistic acts, including being forced to consume feces, urine, and tobacco juice. Two young children were reportedly coerced into participating in the torture.

    Authorities discovered Nordquist’s body on Feb. 13 in a field in Yates County, New York. The circumstances surrounding his death have shocked both the public and LGBTQ+ advocates, leading to widespread outrage.

    A Brutal and Unfathomable Crime

    At a press conference last week, Ontario County Assistant District Attorney Kelly Wolford expressed the incomprehensibility of the crime. “We’ll never know the answer why, because what human being could do what happened to Sam?” she said. “We’ll never make sense of this case.”

    While authorities continue to piece together the details of Nordquist’s last days, the level of violence and cruelty involved has drawn national attention. The case has sparked outcry from LGBTQ+ organizations, who have called for additional scrutiny and possible hate crime charges in connection with Nordquist’s death.

    However, in her comments, Wolford resisted calls for a hate crime charge, emphasizing that reducing the case to a single category would be a disservice to Nordquist’s memory. “To limit us to a hate crime would be an injustice to Sam,” she said.

    Ties Between the Defendants

    Records indicate that the seven defendants knew one another from the local area, with some being romantically involved. Goodwin, a registered sex offender, was reportedly staying in a nearby room at the same motel where Nordquist was held captive, Patty’s Lodge in Canandaigua. Pieper, an attorney for Motyka, stated she was unaware of how the 19-year-old became involved with the other defendants, but confirmed Motyka had been living at the motel starting Jan. 18.

    Family members of Nordquist said the victim’s behavior changed drastically in the months leading up to his death, with his communication becoming increasingly infrequent. They expressed concern that Arzuaga was controlling Nordquist’s phone and limiting his interactions with family members.

    In response to the family’s concerns, they claimed local police failed to adequately investigate wellness checks they had requested while Nordquist was still alive. Authorities have since denied any wrongdoing related to the handling of those wellness checks.

    Coercion of Children

    Wolford also addressed the involvement of two young children who were reportedly coerced into participating in Nordquist’s torture. However, when asked if these children were Arzuaga’s, the prosecutor declined to comment.

    The revelation that children were allegedly involved in such a horrific crime has added another layer of tragedy to the case, raising additional concerns about the psychological and emotional toll on those forced into participating in the abuse.

    Calls for Hate Crime Charges

    Since Nordquist’s body was discovered, LGBTQ+ groups have advocated for hate crime charges to be filed against the accused, arguing that the brutal nature of the crime, combined with Nordquist’s identity as a transgender person, points to a hate-driven motive.

    However, Assistant District Attorney Wolford, who is leading the prosecution, emphasized that the charges should not be limited to a hate crime. “This case goes beyond that. This case is about what was done to Sam, and the people who did it,” Wolford said. “We cannot limit this to just a hate crime.”

    Nordquist’s Family and Community Support

    Nordquist’s family has been vocal in their grief and outrage over his death. They recently laid him to rest in his hometown of Oakdale, Minnesota. Family members have expressed sorrow over the brutal manner of his death, while also calling for justice to be served for the heinous acts carried out by the defendants.

    LGBTQ+ advocacy groups, including the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), have rallied around Nordquist’s family, offering support and urging continued attention to the case. In particular, they have called for further examination of the circumstances surrounding Nordquist’s captivity, including the role of Arzuaga and the other defendants in the horrific events.

    Next Steps

    The seven defendants will return to court on May 2, 2025, for their next scheduled hearing. As the case continues to develop, the community remains focused on ensuring that justice is served for Sam Nordquist, whose tragic death has reverberated through both the LGBTQ+ and broader communities.

    The case has underscored the ongoing struggles faced by transgender individuals, particularly Black transgender people, who often face heightened risks of violence and discrimination. It has also sparked important conversations about the treatment of LGBTQ+ individuals and the need for stronger protections for vulnerable communities.

    As prosecutors continue to build their case, many are left grappling with the shock and grief over a senseless act of violence that will forever impact Nordquist’s loved ones and the LGBTQ+ community.

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  • Ian McKellen Calls for Famous Queer People to Come Out: ‘Being in The Closet is Silly’

    Ian McKellen Calls for Famous Queer People to Come Out: ‘Being in The Closet is Silly’

    Sir Ian McKellen, the legendary actor known for his roles in The Lord of the Rings and X-Men, has stirred a debate after encouraging famous queer people to come out of the closet, asserting that there is “no need” for anyone in the public eye to remain closeted. While McKellen’s comments were widely shared, they also sparked some pushback from those who feel the pressure to come out is not as simple as it seems, especially for those still navigating personal or professional challenges related to their sexuality.

    The 85-year-old actor made these remarks during an interview with The Times, discussing his role in Christopher Marlowe’s Edward II, a play about a relationship between the English king and his companion Piers Gaveston. McKellen, who first portrayed Gaveston in 1969, reflected on the shifting attitudes toward LGBTQ+ representation in theater, particularly how the play and its queer themes have been interpreted across different generations.

    A Call for Coming Out

    McKellen, who has been openly gay since coming out publicly in 1988, has long been an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and visibility. During his interview, he addressed the personal and professional evolution of coming out in the public eye. He reflected on how earlier generations of actors, such as Sir Alec Guinness, were apprehensive about revealing their sexuality, with Guinness comparing it to “getting involved in politics.” Meanwhile, McKellen’s contemporary Simon Callow had a far more open perspective, dismissing the idea of remaining in the closet altogether.

    In the interview, McKellen made a bold statement: “I feel sorry for any famous person who feels they can’t come out. Being in the closet is silly — there’s no need for it.” He explained that in his experience, the societal benefits of being open about one’s sexuality far outweigh the potential consequences, especially for those in the limelight.

    “I have never met anybody who came out who regretted it,” McKellen added. “Being in the closet is silly. Don’t listen to your advisers, listen to your heart. Listen to your gay friends who know better. Come out. Get into the sunshine.”

    While his sentiments come from decades of personal experience, the quote quickly went viral, sparking a range of responses—some supportive, others critical.

    Mixed Reactions from the Public

    Though many people agreed with McKellen’s optimistic message about the freedom and benefits of coming out, others felt his comments missed the nuance of individual struggles and external pressures that still surround the process of coming out. One person responded on social media, saying, “Well, they should come out on their own terms.” Others expressed frustration with what they perceived as a tone-deaf approach, given the current climate of discrimination faced by LGBTQ+ people in many parts of the world.

    “You can’t say something like this and also claim gay people are still being discriminated against and disowned,” wrote one commenter. “I know his heart was in the right place but it feels tone-deaf.”

    Another user echoed these concerns, noting, “His heart was in the right place, but it’s not easy at all to just come out in general, whether you’re famous or not. A lot of people still struggle with their sexuality.”

    While McKellen’s comments were made with the intention of encouraging those in the public eye to embrace their truth, many pointed out that the decision to come out is deeply personal and, in some cases, may not be safe or advisable for everyone. The pressures of fame, the potential for backlash, and the challenges of navigating personal relationships all complicate the process, especially for those who may be in positions where their careers or safety could be at risk.

    A Perspective Shaped by Experience

    McKellen, whose acting career spans over six decades, is well aware of the social and professional obstacles that queer people have faced in the entertainment industry. When reflecting on the potential professional consequences of coming out, McKellen pointed to the example of young footballers, suggesting that agents are likely advising players to stay closeted in order to protect their marketability.

    “The first Premier League footballer to come out will become the most famous footballer in the world, with all the agencies begging for his name on their products,” McKellen said. He noted that, despite the challenges, coming out is ultimately a positive step, both personally and professionally. He pointed to the cultural shift over time, explaining that the benefits of being an openly queer public figure now far outweigh the risks.

    McKellen’s perspective is shaped by the changes he’s witnessed over the years. He has seen how coming out was once considered a career-damaging move, but now, with the rise of LGBTQ+ visibility and support, it’s increasingly seen as a courageous and authentic act that is often met with public admiration and increased opportunities.

    Coming Out and the Public Eye

    For many in the LGBTQ+ community, the decision to come out is complex. It involves weighing personal safety, mental health, and professional viability, especially in industries where public opinion can heavily influence success. While McKellen’s message is one of empowerment, it’s clear that coming out is still a deeply individual decision, one that should not be rushed or forced.

    McKellen’s broader point—that famous queer people should not feel pressured to remain in the closet for the sake of their careers—remains an important one. Yet, it also highlights the stark contrast between the experiences of LGBTQ+ people today and the struggles that previous generations faced. For younger celebrities, McKellen’s words may serve as a reminder of the progress that’s been made, while also offering encouragement to embrace authenticity in a world that is gradually becoming more accepting of queer identities.

  • Drag Performers and Allies Protest Donald Trump’s Takeover of the Kennedy Center

    Drag Performers and Allies Protest Donald Trump’s Takeover of the Kennedy Center

    A coalition of drag performers and their allies gathered outside the Kennedy Center on Friday to protest Donald Trump’s controversial takeover of the historic cultural institution. The protest, which began at Washington Circle before moving to the Kennedy Center, was sparked by Trump’s recent dismissal of the former president and 17 other board members, as well as his appointment of himself as chairman.

    Trump, in his new role, announced plans to reshape the Kennedy Center by banning drag shows and what he described as “woke programming.” His actions, critics argue, signal an attack on queer art and culture in one of the nation’s most iconic cultural venues.

    “We demand that the Kennedy Center board reinstate queer programming, including but not limited to drag-oriented workshops and shows, and any other equity and DEI initiatives,” said drag king Lord Henry, one of the rally’s speakers. “We want to force Congress to drop the multiple attempts at criminalizing gender nonconformity, including Trump’s executive order conflating sex and gender, and the attacks on drag artists through budget amendments.”

    Lord Henry’s comments reflect broader concerns among LGBTQ+ advocates and performers, who view Trump’s move as part of a larger strategy to curtail rights and visibility for the queer community.

    The protest included several prominent drag performers, including Brooke N Hymen, a trans man, who spoke out about the potential harm caused by the current political climate. “Drag is not just an invaluable form of self-expression but is a means of self-discovery,” said Hymen. “And not only are our livelihoods and artistry as drag artists under attack, but the very existence of trans people as well.”

    Hymen criticized Trump’s actions as not only a threat to drag but also to the trans community, explaining that the attack on drag culture is tied to efforts to erase trans identities. “Beyond the executive orders meant to erase trans people from public life, Trump and his cronies want to define living in a trans body and expressing yourself in a way that aligns with your gender identity as ‘doing drag,’” Hymen said. “By attacking drag, they are attempting to outlaw trans people’s very existence.”

    The Kennedy Center’s new leadership has already led to the cancellation of several performances and events, with prominent artists pulling out in response to the changes. Lin-Manuel Miranda, the creator of Hamilton, canceled a scheduled performance of the popular musical at the venue. Similarly, actress Issa Rae also withdrew from an upcoming engagement, highlighting the cultural divide created by the new administration at the Kennedy Center.

    The Kennedy Center itself has also canceled several engagements that align with LGBTQ+ and pro-science themes. The cancellations include a World Pride concert featuring the Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington, D.C., a post-Broadway showing of Eureka Day—a play centered on anti-vaccination themes—and Finn, a children’s musical about a shark that many have interpreted as a metaphor for the queer experience.

    The protest outside the Kennedy Center underscored concerns that Trump’s vision for the institution represents a broader cultural shift aimed at silencing LGBTQ+ voices and erasing queer representation from mainstream culture. Supporters of the protest are also worried about the potential impacts of Trump’s policies on other cultural institutions across the country.

    The takeover of the Kennedy Center by a figure like Trump has sent shockwaves through the artistic community, particularly in Washington, D.C., where local drag performers have long thrived. The protest, which featured performances by drag artists such as Crystal Edge, Indiana Bones, Cake Pop!, Tara Hoot, Mari Con Carne, Blaq Dinamyte, Mx. Noir, and Ricky Rosé, served as a vocal reminder of the importance of preserving artistic spaces that celebrate diversity and inclusion.

    The demonstration is just the latest in a series of actions aimed at resisting what critics describe as a growing trend of political interference in the arts. As drag performers and their allies continue to speak out, their message remains clear: they will not allow the silencing of queer voices or the erasure of LGBTQ+ culture, especially in spaces that have long been a haven for marginalized communities.

    In the coming weeks, organizers hope to mobilize further efforts to push back against Trump’s takeover of the Kennedy Center and his broader agenda targeting the LGBTQ+ community. As they continue to advocate for queer representation in the arts, their message is one of resilience and determination.

  • Dylan Mulvaney Reflects on Her Journey of Girlhood and New Memoir ‘Paper Doll’

    Dylan Mulvaney Reflects on Her Journey of Girlhood and New Memoir ‘Paper Doll’

    Dylan Mulvaney, the trailblazing trans icon and social media star, takes center stage in the March/April 2025 issue of The Advocate, offering a deeply personal look at her rise to fame, the challenges she’s faced, and her reflections on life’s journey. Known for her viral “Days of Girlhood” video series, Mulvaney continues to inspire and advocate for the transgender community, and now, with the release of her memoir Paper Doll: Notes from a Late Bloomer, she shares her intimate coming-of-age story with the world.

    In a revealing interview with The Advocate’s Mey Rude, Mulvaney opens up about how she’s navigated both success and backlash, including the infamous “Beergate” incident that drew widespread criticism. Despite the challenges, Mulvaney remains grounded in optimism and gratitude, elements that have sustained her throughout her journey. She also discusses a transformative experience involving ayahuasca, a psychedelic journey that played a pivotal role in her personal growth.

    Paper Doll Chronicles Her Transformation

    In Paper Doll, Mulvaney provides a candid account of her life, from her earliest experiences with girlhood to her public coming out and everything in between. The memoir sheds light on her struggles and triumphs, offering a narrative that resonates with many, particularly trans youth who feel alienated or rejected by society.

    “I think my memoir is a reflection of my life as someone who is discovering themselves as I go,” Mulvaney said. “It’s not just about the fun moments or the viral videos—it’s about the real moments, the painful parts, and how I learned to navigate them.”

    The book delves into her darkest moments, including the aftermath of the Bud Light backlash, an episode Mulvaney refers to as “Beergate.” In the interview, she discusses how the incident impacted her but also how she managed to emerge from it with an even stronger sense of self.

    Staying Optimistic Amidst Backlash

    One of the most striking elements of Mulvaney’s interview is her unwavering commitment to optimism. Despite the challenges she’s faced, she attributes much of her resilience to her optimistic perspective on life.

    “I think that I am an optimist to the craziest extent,” she shared. “My earnestness has kept me alive, and it’s what keeps me going… I actually think optimism is the coolest thing in the world. And I think the reason that I am around is because I surround myself with people who are wildly optimistic.”

    Her approach to optimism has made her a beacon of hope for many in the LGBTQ+ community, especially those facing their own struggles with identity and acceptance.

    The Power of Vulnerability

    A significant theme in Mulvaney’s memoir is the idea of vulnerability as a means of healing. Writing the book was not only cathartic for her but also a way to share her experiences in a deeper and more meaningful way than through her social media posts.

    “Writing the memoir ended up being very cathartic and very healing because I think I got to share parts of my relationship to that time and to the media in a way that I didn’t feel safe to online,” Mulvaney explained. “And in a way that felt very vulnerable. I think had I just released a book that was only related to those 365 days, I don’t think it would have been the right thing.”

    Her ability to be open about her struggles has helped her connect with fans and followers, many of whom look up to her as a source of inspiration.

    Embracing Her Role as a Role Model

    Mulvaney’s role as a public figure has also evolved as she increasingly sees herself as a mother figure to her fans. Her desire to support and uplift others is evident in her words and actions.

    “If I can be a part of someone’s mother Rolodex, sign me up, I’m in,” she said, reflecting on how she sees herself in relation to the trans community.

    Her support for the LGBTQ+ community is unwavering, and her memoir is a powerful testament to her commitment to being a role model for those in need of guidance and encouragement.

  • How Jonathan Van Ness Believes Their Standup Helps Remove Stigma of Living with HIV

    How Jonathan Van Ness Believes Their Standup Helps Remove Stigma of Living with HIV

    Jonathan Van Ness, known for their infectious personality on Queer Eye and their popular podcast Getting Curious, is taking their comedy to the stage at the Lil Rhody Laugh Riot festival in Providence, Rhode Island, on March 29. Ahead of their performance speaking with Gayety, Van Ness shared insights into their approach to stand-up comedy, the importance of LGBTQ+ representation, and how they use humor to navigate life’s challenges.

     

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    For Van Ness, stand-up comedy offers a unique opportunity to connect with audiences in a way that differs significantly from their other projects. “Stand-up is by far the most exhilarating of all because it’s just about making people laugh,” they explained. While Queer Eye and Getting Curious offer platforms to discuss deeper, more personal topics, stand-up allows Van Ness to fully express their comedic personality. “I think my stand-up is the most full version of my personality I ever get to show,” they said. “I love taking people for a joy-filled ride to JVN town.”

    Van Ness’s approach to preparing for a comedy set differs from their other endeavors. “I usually start my material at comedy clubs and then warm up into larger venues,” they said. “A one-hour set can take a couple of years to perfect.” They revealed that they keep a note in their phone to store ideas, which they refine into full shows. “Before taking it to the stage, I try to get it as comfortable and the timing as perfect as I can,” they added. For them, it’s all about the joy of the performance and the connection with the audience.

    The Lil Rhody Laugh Riot festival features a diverse range of comedic talent, and Van Ness is thrilled to be part of the lineup. “I’m such a fan of Leslie Jones, she is so major,” Van Ness said. “There are so many comedians whose work blows my mind. I can’t wait to hit up some of the other shows.” The festival, which brings together a wide array of comic voices, provides an exciting opportunity for fans to see different styles and perspectives in one place.

    Known for their candidness and humor on Queer Eye and their podcast, Van Ness promises their stand-up set will offer fans a chance to see a different side of them. “Stand-up is where I get to be much more unapologetically queer, brash, and take risks,” they said. “I think my stand-up audience gets a little surprise.” The comedic risk-taking is something Van Ness relishes, allowing them to push boundaries and share their unapologetic, bold humor with the crowd.

     

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    A significant part of Van Ness’s stand-up routine draws from their own life experiences, including their journey living with HIV and overcoming struggles with addiction. They use humor to destigmatize these issues and encourage others to seek support. “Living with HIV and various struggles with addiction are things I joke a lot about in my stand-up,” they said. “I hope that allows people to feel less stigma, learn, and ultimately ask for help. Because sometimes even us strong divas need some support.” Van Ness’s comedy serves as a reminder that even in tough situations, laughter can be a healing tool.

    When asked about the message they hope to convey during their performance, Van Ness was clear: “That healing is messy, so are we, and we are meant to laugh it out when things get shitty, otherwise, what’s the hope of keeping going?” Their comedic approach emphasizes the importance of resilience and humor when facing life’s difficulties, inviting the audience to join them in celebrating the messy, unpredictable nature of healing.

    As an advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, Van Ness sees comedy as a way to foster visibility, celebrate diversity, and create a safe space for people to be themselves. “Through building a community of hot, smart people,” they said, reflecting their belief that humor can empower others and bring people together. Their stand-up performance at the Lil Rhody Laugh Riot festival further cements their commitment to using their platform to uplift and inspire.

    Van Ness’s podcast, Getting Curious, explores a variety of topics, ranging from self-care to societal issues. While they promise to bring a funnier version of their podcast content to the stage, they noted that their stand-up will dive into these themes with a comedic twist. “Yes, but funnier,” they quipped, teasing their fans with what to expect from their performance.

    Reflecting on their own journey into comedy, Van Ness shared a piece of advice for aspiring LGBTQ+ performers: “Getting started is the hardest part, but in the words of Sheryl Lee Ralph from Sister Act 2, if when you wake up in the morning and all you can do is think about singing, then you’re a singer girl. Well, replace that with comedy and there you go, queen.” Their encouragement underscores the importance of perseverance and passion when pursuing a career in comedy.

    Live performances are an integral part of Van Ness’s appeal, and they thrive on the unpredictable energy of an in-person crowd. “You never know what’s going to happen, and I just feed on that crowd’s energy,” they said. “Let’s go, queens!” Van Ness’s enthusiasm for live shows reflects their belief in the power of connection, laughter, and the communal experience of a comedy festival.

    Looking ahead, Van Ness is excited about their future projects. “I’ll be on tour with this set through the end of the year and can’t wait to keep developing this material and turn it into my second special,” they said. In addition, they are eagerly anticipating more developments for their JVN Hair line. “We are doing such good hair and have lots of exciting new additions to find your best hair no matter what we’re going through.”

    Jonathan Van Ness will perform at the Lil Rhody Laugh Riot comedy festival on Saturday, March 29, in Providence, Rhode Island. Tickets are available now at LilRhodyLaughRiot.com.

  • Fans Lose It After Seeing This Photo of Pedro Pascal and Oscar Isaac Hugging

    Fans Lose It After Seeing This Photo of Pedro Pascal and Oscar Isaac Hugging

    A picture of Pedro Pascal and Oscar Isaac embracing has set the internet ablaze with excitement, leaving fans delighted by the show of affection and celebrating their deep friendship.

    The heartwarming photo, which was shared on Pascal’s Instagram Story on Sunday, March 9, captured the two actors in a warm hug. While the image was shared without a caption, Pascal credited the photo to Isaac’s wife, Elvira Lind, who was behind the camera. The photo quickly became a sensation after Pascal posted it, drawing millions of views online.

    The picture was also shared on X (formerly Twitter), where it quickly amassed around ten million views. Fans responded in droves, expressing their adoration for the actors and their palpable chemistry. Many took to social media to comment on the photo’s display of “non-toxic masculinity” and the genuine, supportive nature of their friendship.

    “Absolutely adorable. We need to see these two in an amazing buddy movie together,” one fan wrote. Another added, “They’re becoming one of my favorite duos.” The pair’s loving embrace has sparked a wave of memes, gifs, and humorous reactions, showcasing the fans’ enjoyment of their connection.

    The bond between Pascal and Isaac stretches back years. The two first met in 2005 while working together on a theater production, which laid the foundation for their close friendship. In a 2020 interview with Variety, Isaac shared how they initially bonded over the challenges they faced as Latino actors. He explained that early in their careers, it was all too easy to be pigeonholed into stereotypical roles, particularly those involving gang members, which led to feelings of frustration.

    Isaac reflected, “It’s gotten better, but at that point, it was so easy to be pigeonholed in very specific roles because we’re Latinos. It’s like, how many gang member roles am I going to be sent?” Despite these early struggles, Isaac said their friendship flourished as they supported each other through the trials of their careers, which at the time, were focused on surviving in an industry that often overlooked their potential.

    “There wasn’t a strategy. We were just struggling. It was talking about how to do this thing that we both love but seems kind of insurmountable,” Isaac added.

    Over the years, both Pascal and Isaac have risen to fame and found immense success in Hollywood, with both actors now regarded as leading talents in the entertainment industry.

    Pascal, known for his breakout role in Game of Thrones, has continued to shine in critically acclaimed projects. He starred in the hit HBO series The Last of Us and has appeared in Gladiator II and The Mandalorian. His star continues to rise, with an upcoming role in the Fantastic Four reboot, alongside Vanessa Kirby, Joseph Quinn, and Ebon Moss-Bachrach.

    Isaac, likewise, has become one of the most respected actors of his generation. His impressive filmography includes Ex Machina, Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse, and several films in the Star Wars franchise. His role in Dune has further cemented his place as a versatile and in-demand talent.

    The recent photo has only fueled speculation among fans about the possibility of the two actors collaborating on a film together. Their enduring friendship, built on years of shared experiences and mutual respect, is clearly something fans would love to see on screen.

    The affectionate embrace between Pascal and Isaac also serves as a reminder of the power of genuine friendship in a highly competitive industry. Their relationship exemplifies how two successful individuals can build each other up and thrive together without the toxic competitiveness that often defines Hollywood.

    While fans continue to gush over the photo, the real appeal lies in the authenticity and sincerity that Pascal and Isaac have shown over the years—both to each other and to their audiences. As they continue to rise in their respective careers, their bond serves as a testament to the strength of friendship in the entertainment world.

    In an era where public figures are often scrutinized for their every move, the heartwarming photo of Pascal and Isaac is a refreshing reminder that sometimes, the most genuine relationships are the ones that resonate the most with fans.

  • Emilia Pérez Star Karla Sofía Gascón Apologizes for Past Controversy Amid Oscars Scandal

    Emilia Pérez Star Karla Sofía Gascón Apologizes for Past Controversy Amid Oscars Scandal

    Karla Sofía Gascón, the star of Emilia Pérez, has issued a heartfelt apology following a wave of controversy during this year’s Oscars season. The actress, who made history as the first openly transgender actor nominated for an Academy Award, found herself at the center of a scandal after past social media posts resurfaced. The posts, which included hateful and bigoted remarks, sparked widespread backlash from the public.

    In an exclusive statement to The Hollywood Reporter, Gascón expressed regret over her past actions, discussing the emotional toll the situation has taken on her in recent months. The actress acknowledged the harm caused by her past words and emphasized her commitment to self-improvement and accountability.

    “I’ve learned a lot over these past few months,” Gascón said. “I want to take this opportunity to listen, learn, and admit my mistakes, while also seeking forgiveness for the pain I’ve caused others.”

    The controversy surrounding Gascón intensified after journalist Sarah Hagi uncovered a series of posts from Gascón’s time on X (formerly Twitter). The posts, written years ago, included derogatory statements targeting Islam and Muslims, as well as comments about immigrants, the Oscars, and the George Floyd protests.

    The actress, who had enjoyed a period of success following her Oscar nomination, became the target of public scrutiny. Despite facing intense criticism, Gascón has since acknowledged the damage her comments caused and expressed a desire to make amends.

    In her statement, Gascón reflected on her journey and the emotional impact of the controversy. She explained that she had built “a shield” around herself to cope with past struggles, but that this emotional barrier ultimately created additional harm to those around her.

    “Shields can be cold and hard on the outside, and they can also hurt those who are close to you,” she said. “While I have been the target of harmful words, I also recognize that I have said hurtful things in the past. These words came from a place of fear, ignorance, and pain, and I deeply regret them.”

    Gascón emphasized that there are no excuses for her past behavior and stressed that she was not attempting to justify her actions. “I apologize to anyone I have offended, and I ask for their forgiveness,” she stated. “I am committed to doing better, learning from my mistakes, and ensuring that I do not repeat them in the future.”

    Mental health struggles have also played a significant role in Gascón’s personal journey. She revealed that, amid the scandal, she has faced “dark moments” in her life. In her statement, the actress admitted that at times the emotional weight of the situation was so overwhelming that she considered “the unthinkable.”

    “There were moments during this painful experience when the pain became so intense that I considered giving up,” Gascón confessed. “I harbored darker thoughts than I had during other difficult times in my life. But through it all, I have managed to hold on to a small piece of sanity, and that has helped me see the light at the end of this tunnel of hate.”

     

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    Despite the emotional challenges, Gascón is determined to learn from her past and emerge stronger. “I understand now that I must be better and do better,” she said. “It’s important to me to correct the mistakes I’ve made and move forward with a more open heart, free from the darkness that has consumed me.”

    The actress has previously issued public apologies, but some of her earlier statements were met with criticism for being defensive. In an interview with CNN en Español, Gascón stated: “I have not committed any crime, nor have I harmed anyone. I am not racist, nor am I anything that people are trying to make others believe about me.” However, in her latest statement, she took a more reflective approach, acknowledging her past mistakes without deflecting blame.

    Gascón’s journey to redemption comes at a time when the spotlight is on her as one of the most high-profile LGBTQ+ figures in Hollywood. As a trailblazer in her industry, she has a significant platform to inspire change and dialogue around issues of representation, acceptance, and self-reflection.

    In addition to her Hollywood career, Gascón has been an advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, particularly for transgender rights. Her Oscar nomination marked a major milestone for transgender visibility in the entertainment industry, and many fans and supporters rallied behind her during the controversy.

    Despite the turbulence she has faced, Gascón remains determined to use her experiences as an opportunity for growth. “I am deeply grateful for the kindness and understanding I’ve received from so many people during this difficult time,” she said. “As I continue to learn and evolve, I promise to be a better person, not just for myself, but for all those I’ve hurt along the way.”

    In a post on her Instagram, Gascón shared the full statement with her followers, providing a summary in Spanish to reach a broader audience. She also included a message of hope, encouraging others to embrace forgiveness and the power of personal growth.

    As Gascón moves forward, it remains to be seen how her career and public image will evolve. However, her commitment to change and her willingness to confront her past head-on have garnered support from many, while others continue to call for accountability in the public eye.