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  • Renee Rapp Roasts Sabrina Carpenter and Broadway Burnout in Hilarious Lie Detector Test

    Renee Rapp Roasts Sabrina Carpenter and Broadway Burnout in Hilarious Lie Detector Test

    Renee Rapp’s chaotic honesty was on full display in her recent Vanity Fair lie detector test, where no topic was off-limits, not even a faux feud with fellow pop princess Sabrina Carpenter. The Mean Girls star gave fans a candid, curse-laden glimpse into her unfiltered thoughts on Broadway burnout, gay group chats, and the scariest fandom in the world: bisexual teens.

    “Maxed Out” on Mean Girls

    When asked if she’d ever return to her iconic role as Regina George should Sabrina Carpenter reprise her part in Mean Girls, Rapp didn’t hesitate. “I don’t know that I’m doing a threepeat,” she said, noting she’s “maxed out” on Mean Girls after playing the role in both the stage and film adaptations.

    Though she clarified that Carpenter had only just begun her Broadway run before the pandemic shuttered theaters—“It was more than likely rather inconvenient [for her]”—Rapp was quick to make the moment her own. When asked, tongue-in-cheek, whether she valued Carpenter’s opinion, Rapp deadpanned, “I do not value the opinion of Sabrina Carpenter.”

    The polygraph called that a lie. But the internet called it iconic.

    Fistfights and Funeral Solos

    The interview spiraled into gloriously unserious territory as Rapp confessed to fighting a seven-year-old outside a Lakers game. The kid allegedly called her a slur, and she retaliated while hungover. “Outta line. I should’ve held back,” she admitted, though the polygraph confirmed she was telling the truth. “Do I think I won that fight? No. I fear he’ll be using it more.”

    She also revealed she got her performance start by singing at funerals, because, as she put it, “I just wanted to make it about myself.” Her favorite? “Amazing Grace” at her great-grandmother’s funeral. “She couldn’t comment on it ’cause she was dead.”

    Broadway Burnout and Big Dreams

    Rapp got real about her complicated relationship with Broadway, explaining she struggled as a “depressed teenager” during her time on stage. “I don’t like doing the same thing every day,” she said, noting she’d need to “re-fall in love with it” before returning to the grind.

    But that doesn’t mean she’s slowing down, she still plans to EGOT by 40. “Is 40 old?” the interviewer asked. “If you act annoying, then hell yeah,” Rapp replied.

    Fear of Fans and Frank Ocean’s Release Schedule

    Perhaps the most relatable moment? Her fear of her own fandom. “Have you ever seen a rabid bunch of white 16-year-old bisexuals unhappy?” she asked. “With all the love in the world, y’all scare the shit out of me.”

    She also admitted she’s not rushing to release new music, despite fan pressure. “Somebody tells me to release something and it’s gonna wait another six months no matter who it is,” she said. “Y’all are gonna have to wait for that shit longer.”

    Asked whether she’s modeled her release strategy on Frank Ocean, she laughed: “No, but it damn sure seems like it.”

    Judd Is Gay and That’s a Compliment

    In classic Renee fashion, the interview wrapped with her declaring her lie detector test operator, Judd, is gay. “It’s a compliment. I like gay people,” she said, before inviting him out with her friend group.

    She also gushed about her girlfriend, Towa Bird, and their group chat, fittingly named “Gay.” The couple’s hard launch at the Vanity Fair Oscars party was no PR stunt. “She’s so pretty and I love watching people fawn over her,” Rapp said. “You gotta come. Sorry, sister.”

    Whether she’s trolling Sabrina, dragging Boston, or complimenting LeBron James’ “pretty little face,” Renee Rapp proves time and time again: the girl is not media trained, and we’re better for it.

    Stay tuned for her upcoming music, which you’ll get when she damn well feels like it.

  • Sniffies, Twinks, and Dolls Bring Kinky Chaos and $15K for Trans Lifeline

    Sniffies, Twinks, and Dolls Bring Kinky Chaos and $15K for Trans Lifeline

    Brooklyn Pride got a scandalous shot of adrenaline Saturday, June 28, as Sniffies, the unapologetically explicit cruising app threw its weight behind the wildly chaotic and wonderfully queer Twinks vs. Dolls showdown.

    Sniffies sponsors Twinks vs. Dolls, a wild NYC Pride showdown, and donates $15K to Trans Lifeline in support of trans lives.
    Photo: Sniffies

    Sniffies sponsors Twinks vs. Dolls, a wild NYC Pride showdown, and donates $15K to Trans Lifeline in support of trans lives.
    Photo: Sniffies

    What started as a cheeky alternative to the polished corporate Pride scene has turned into a full-blown cultural moment. With over 5,000 attendees pouring into the venue, the annual event delivered on its promise: messy, horny, and hilariously queer mayhem.

    From Monster Trucks to Glory Holes

    Forget rainbow floats and gentle affirmations, Twinks vs. Dolls is about maximalist queer joy and absolute camp carnage. This year’s players made their grand entrances via monster trucks and motorcycles (shoutout to Dykes on Bikes), revving up the crowd before a single twink or doll even touched the turf.

    Sniffies sponsors Twinks vs. Dolls, a wild NYC Pride showdown, and donates $15K to Trans Lifeline in support of trans lives.
    Photo: Sniffies

    Sniffies sponsors Twinks vs. Dolls, a wild NYC Pride showdown, and donates $15K to Trans Lifeline in support of trans lives.
    Photo: Sniffies

    Sniffies sponsors Twinks vs. Dolls, a wild NYC Pride showdown, and donates $15K to Trans Lifeline in support of trans lives.
    Photo: Sniffies

    The festivities began with a delightfully absurd car impression contest, but the real headline came courtesy of the Sniffies Suck Off. With two giant glory hole walls wheeled into the ring, contestants raced to deep-throat popsicles for team pride and audience approval. It was the Sniffies-sponsored Twinks who ultimately pulled ahead, tongue-first.

    A Kiddie Pool, Some Nacho Cheese, and a Whole Lot of Pride

    Just when you thought it couldn’t get messier, the finale brought out a kiddie pool full of nacho cheese for a no-rules wrestling match. Equal parts absurdist theater and queer catharsis, Twinks vs. Dolls has become a Pride essential: chaotic, defiant, and deliciously unserious.

    Sniffies Puts Its Money Where Its Mouth Is

    Beyond the camp and kink, Sniffies used the event to spotlight a deeper mission: supporting trans lives. The app donated $15,000 to Trans Lifeline, a grassroots organization offering crisis support and microgrants to trans people. Attendees also snatched up limited-edition jerseys (an estimated 500 sold), with 100% of proceeds going directly to the cause.

    It was messy. It was meaningful. And it was money well spent.

    If you’d like to donate to Trans Lifeline, you can do so here.

    About Sniffies

    Sniffies is a map-based cruising platform designed for gay, bi, and curious men to explore connection without shame. With real-time location features, intuitive tools, and no-holds-barred sexual expression, it’s become the go-to space for spontaneous and anonymous encounters, no swiping required. Learn more at sniffies.com.

  • Seven Trans Icons Join Stonewall’s LGBTQ Wall of Honor in Powerful Pride Tribute

    Seven Trans Icons Join Stonewall’s LGBTQ Wall of Honor in Powerful Pride Tribute

    The National LGBTQ Wall of Honor at the historic Stonewall Inn will add seven new names to its ranks on June 26, and for the first time, all honorees are trailblazing transgender advocates. The annual ceremony, co-hosted by the International Imperial Court Council and the National LGBTQ Task Force, is free and open to the public, though RSVPs are required due to limited space.

    The induction comes at a time of heightened attacks on the transgender community, with discriminatory legislation and violence on the rise across the United States. Organizers say this year’s focus on trans honorees is both a tribute to resilience and a call to action.

    Honoring a Legacy of Resistance

    The National LGBTQ Wall of Honor, nestled inside the legendary Stonewall Inn, epicenter of the 1969 uprising that ignited the modern LGBTQ rights movement, is part of the Stonewall National Monument. Since its unveiling in 2019, the Wall has served as a posthumous tribute to queer pioneers such as Marsha P. Johnson, Audre Lorde, and Harvey Milk.

    “This year’s focus on transgender trailblazers and changemakers underscores the importance of recognizing our history and the current climate for our trans siblings,” said Cathy Renna, Communications Director at the National LGBTQ Task Force. “Their courage inspires our ongoing fight for liberation.”

    Nicole Murray Ramirez, founder of the Wall and Queen Mother of the Americas, added, “A movement that does not know where it came from, or whose shoulders it stands on, does not know where it’s going. This is a reminder that trans people have always been at the forefront of our community.”

    The National LGBTQ Wall of Honor at Stonewall will induct seven trans advocates this Pride Month. Here's why it matters more than ever.
    Photo: The Stonewall In

    Meet the 2025 Inductees

    Ruddy Martinez
    Known as “Mami Ruddys,” Martinez was a beloved trans drag performer and activist in Puerto Rico. Since the 1980s, she turned her home into a sanctuary for queer youth rejected by their families.

    Chili Pepper
    A frequent guest on 1980s talk shows like Oprah and Phil Donahue, Chili Pepper used her platform to challenge stereotypes and raise AIDS awareness.

    Lynn Conway
    A computer science pioneer, Conway revolutionized microchip design while fighting gender discrimination in STEM. She helped pave the way for future generations of trans scientists.

    Alan L. Hart
    One of the first people to undergo gender-affirming surgery, Hart was a physician and novelist who made groundbreaking contributions to tuberculosis research in the early 20th century.

    Jiggly Caliente
    The beloved RuPaul’s Drag Race alum and Pose star, Jiggly (Bianca Castro-Arabejo), was a powerful force for representation until her death in April 2025 at age 44.

    The Lady Chablis
    A charismatic entertainer and actress, Chablis broke barriers with her performance in Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, becoming one of the first Black trans women to gain widespread media visibility.

    Sam Nordquist
    A Black trans man whose brutal murder in 2025 ignited national outrage. His death exposed the ongoing crisis of violence against transgender people, especially Black trans men and women.

    A Moment of Reflection and Action

    This year’s induction is more than symbolic, it’s a statement against erasure. As anti-trans legislation threatens access to healthcare, safety, and freedom, remembering trans leaders past and present becomes a radical act of visibility.

    The Wall of Honor, which began with 50 names on the 50th anniversary of Stonewall, continues to grow each year. With the addition of these seven names, the Wall becomes an even more inclusive testament to the diverse identities that have shaped the LGBTQ movement.

    And in the words of Ramirez: “Trans people have not only always been here, they’ve led the charge.”

  • Everything You Need in Your Ultimate Pride Month Starter Kit (Yes, Glitter Included)

    Everything You Need in Your Ultimate Pride Month Starter Kit (Yes, Glitter Included)

    Pride Month is like queer Christmas, minus the stress of gift wrapping and plus a whole lot more thigh. Whether you’re a Pride first-timer or a seasoned veteran with fan-snapping wrist strength, you need to be prepared. And what better way than with the ultimate Pride Month Starter Kit?

    Here’s everything you actually need to serve face, protect your phone, flirt with your ex, and make it to July with glitter still in your scalp.

    1. Glitter, But Make It Biodegradable

    We love the planet almost as much as we love looking fabulous, so please make your sparkle sustainable. Biodegradable glitter is the way to go, because the only thing toxic at Pride should be your ex’s texts.

    Snag your glitter, diva tee, and Grindr premium: here’s everything you need in your Pride Month starter kit.
    Photo: Writopia Lab

    2. Jean Overalls

    Summer’s here, and the flannels have been laid to rest. Enter: the timeless lesbian classic, jean overalls with a crisp white or black tee underneath. Functional, flirtatious, and with just enough side gap to get a sunburn on your ribcage. We love a seasonal switch-up.

    3. A Fan That Snaps Louder Than Your Ex’s Apologies

    You’re not at Pride unless you’re dramatically snapping open a folding fan every time someone dares to block your breeze. Bonus points if it says “WERK,” “HOT MESS,” or “NO THANKS.” Shade isn’t just encouraged, it’s tradition.

    Snag your glitter, diva tee, and Grindr premium: here’s everything you need in your Pride Month starter kit.
    Photo: The Gay Fan Club

    4. A Grindr Premium Subscription

    Pride is Grindr’s Super Bowl. Go ahead and unlock that premium for the weekend, you deserve it. Who needs a map when you can see who’s three feet away, shirtless, and “looking”? Remember to hydrate before you misbehave.

    5. Poppers (For When the Beat, and the Boys, Drop)

    Yes, darling, we went there. If you’re entering a dark room, dancing in a sweaty crowd, or just need a sudden personality reset, poppers are practically Pride cologne. Just remember: not all nostrils were created equal. Sniff responsibly.

    Photo: Alamy
    Photo: Alamy

    6. Your Chosen Family

    More important than any crop top or glitter bomb is the crew you roll with. Whether it’s your ride-or-die queer besties, your drag mom, or your favorite chaotic cousin, Pride is best served with people who get you and won’t judge you for crying during Robyn.

    7. A Signature Look™️

    This isn’t the time to blend in. Think rhinestones, mesh, booty shorts, and body glitter. Or if that’s not your vibe, go full cottagecore lesbian or queer-coded anime villain. The assignment is: Be seen from space.

    Snag your glitter, diva tee, and Grindr premium: here’s everything you need in your Pride Month starter kit.
    Photo: ICT Award

    8. Your Favorite Diva Repped Proudly on a Cropped T-Shirt

    Whether it’s Beyoncé, Gaga, Ariana, Cher, or a deep-cut Mariah moment, your diva allegiance must be made known. Bonus points if it’s a bootleg tee from Etsy that says “Mother” in bold font across the chest. Respect your elders.

    9. Crossbody Bag That Says “Try Me, Thief”

    Look, we love a tiny short with no pockets. But shady characters love them even more. Pride events are packed, and the last thing you want is to realize your phone’s gone right after sending a risky text to your situationship. A secure, zipped, crossbody bag is cute and practical. Slay, but safely.

    Snag your glitter, diva tee, and Grindr premium: here’s everything you need in your Pride Month starter kit.
    Photo: DH Club

    10. A Signature Gay Playlist That Pleases the Girls, Gays, and Theys

    This isn’t just any playlist, it’s THE event playlist. It’s Charli XCX followed by Kylie followed by RuPaul followed by “The Climb” just to make everyone cry a little. Your aux cord is a sacred weapon. Use it wisely.

    Now go forth, queer warrior, with your starter kit in hand and your diva playlist queued. Pride Month is here, so be loud, be proud, and be so extra it hurts.

  • Jonathan Van Ness Launches ‘Getting Better’ on Patreon With Exclusive Content and Deeper Community Connection

    Jonathan Van Ness Launches ‘Getting Better’ on Patreon With Exclusive Content and Deeper Community Connection

    Jonathan Van Ness, the multi-talented grooming expert best known for their breakout role on Queer Eye, has officially relaunched their beloved podcast Getting Better—this time with a bold new direction and a fresh home on Patreon. The move signals an exciting new chapter for Van Ness and their global community of fans who are eager to go deeper into topics like self-improvement, mental health, beauty, politics, and all things joyful.

    With Getting Better now hosted on Patreon, Van Ness is offering fans a more intimate, unfiltered experience. This refreshed version of the show continues to focus on personal growth and emotional wellness, but with a revamped format that invites listeners behind the scenes like never before. Through bonus episodes, video vlogs, exclusive interviews, and live chats, Van Ness is cultivating a digital space where authenticity, vulnerability, and optimism shine.

     

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    “Getting Better” Gets Personal—And More Accessible Than Ever

    For years, Getting Better has served as a sanctuary of encouragement and empowerment for fans of Van Ness. Now on Patreon, the show invites listeners into a deeper experience—one that includes behind-the-scenes access to Van Ness’ life, career, and passions.

    “News! I’m so excited to launch a Patreon,” Van Ness shared with fans on social media. “This platform will allow me to cultivate space for more joy, connection, and share the fullness of my life with our community. I will be more unfiltered, give you BTS moments of my life and career, and you’ll have access to content that you won’t see on my other channels.”

    That content will include everything from unseen podcast segments to live conversations with fans, sneak peeks of Queer Eye shoots, and updates on their beauty brand JVN Hair. But more importantly, the Patreon platform allows Van Ness to speak candidly, freely, and in full color—without the constraints of traditional podcast distribution models.

    “No censoring and second guessing myself here!” Van Ness added. “Just all things fun.”

    A New Era of Community Building

    Van Ness’ move to Patreon is also about more than just content—it’s about creating a dedicated space for a community that shares in the values of kindness, growth, curiosity, and healing. As Van Ness continues to be a vocal advocate for LGBTQ+ rights, mental health awareness, and body positivity, Getting Better offers a softer, safer digital ecosystem for fans to come together.

    Listeners who join Patreon at the free or paid levels will gain access to curated episodes and direct engagement opportunities, including:

    • Exclusive vlogs and bonus episodes

    • Behind-the-scenes content from Queer Eye and JVN Hair

    • Unaired podcast segments

    • Live chats and Q&A sessions with Van Ness

    • Guest interviews with inspiring voices in wellness, politics, and entertainment

    This more direct-to-community model mirrors a growing trend among creators, particularly queer creators, who are turning to Patreon and other subscription-based platforms to build lasting relationships with their audiences—on their own terms.

    Bringing LGBTQ+ Joy to the Forefront

    Van Ness, who identifies as nonbinary and uses they/he/she pronouns, has always embodied joyful queer visibility in everything they do—from hair tutorials and red carpet moments to political activism and wellness discourse. With the new Patreon format, Van Ness now has the creative freedom to dive into nuanced conversations that don’t always make the cut in mainstream media.

    Whether they’re breaking down trans rights issues, sharing their personal fitness journey, or gushing about the latest skincare must-have, Van Ness does it all with a combination of vulnerability and enthusiasm that continues to inspire.

    In past episodes of Getting Better, guests have included everyone from Tan France and Brandi Carlile to mental health experts and sex educators—each one contributing to Van Ness’ mission of making self-care accessible, celebratory, and inclusive.

    And now, with full creative control and a growing Patreon community, that mission only gets stronger.

    How to Join the “Getting Better” Patreon

    Fans can subscribe to Getting Better on Patreon via free or paid tiers. The free tier gives users access to select bonus content and community updates, while paid memberships unlock full access to Van Ness’ exclusive video content, early podcast releases, live chats, and more.

  • Archer Unveils ‘Looking For Modes’ and Redefines The Gay Dating App Experience

    Archer Unveils ‘Looking For Modes’ and Redefines The Gay Dating App Experience

    Archer, the face-forward dating app built for gay and queer men, has launched a major redesign that allows users to clarify their dating intentions with a feature called Looking For Modes. The update — branded to spotlight Hookup, Date, or Friends intentions each time a user opens the app — aims to foster more intentional, authentic connections in the gay dating landscape.

    The feature and updated interface stem from findings in Archer’s newly released annual trends report, “The Naked Truth,” which surveyed over 550 users. The findings challenge long-standing stereotypes about gay dating by revealing that many men in the Archer community are seeking more than casual encounters.

    Key Insights from “The Naked Truth”

    • Archer users are 5.8× more likely to seek a husband than a hookup.

    • They’re 3× more inclined to pursue a love story over random sex.

    • A healthy 57% of gay singles are open to exploring new things sexually, and 20% have established kink preferences.

    • Top green flags include strong communication skills and emotional intelligence—traits that outrank physical appearance or sexual chemistry.

    “Dating within the gay community is all about choice, fluidity, and the freedom to define what connection means in the moment,” said Michael Kaye, Head of Brand at Archer. “The Naked Truth shows us that our users value authenticity and intention. They’re not just seeking endless matches—they’re choosing their own journey on their own terms.”

    Introducing Looking For Modes

    Responding to these insights, Archer today unveiled Looking For Modes—a tool that prompts users to declare one of three intentions every time the app is opened:

    • Hookup Mode – for casual connections

    • Date Mode – for long-term, romantic potential

    • Friends Mode – for platonic relationships

    These modes are further enhanced by temporary status updates like “Looking for now,” “Open to chat,” or “Down to meet,” offering greater clarity and context to others. The redesigned interface aims to reduce mismatches and confusion by giving users control over how their intent is presented.

    Sexual Playlists, Bedroom Vibes & City Dynamics

    While romance is on the rise, the report also highlights users’ spicy side:

    • The most popular sex playlist described as “chill, vibey, and slow.”

    • For bedroom ambiance, “romantic and sensual” came out on top.

    • Archer dived into sexual role preferences by city:

      • Salt Lake City, Tampa, and Denver led in self-identified tops.

      • Cincinnati, Columbus, and Minneapolis topped the charts for bottoms.

      • Columbus also ranked highest for vers (versatile) users.

    App Metrics Reflect Community Engagement

    Archer cites more than 30 million messages sent within its community, demonstrating a high level of activity and eagerness for connection. As the platform continues to grow, new features like Looking For Modes seek to empower users to find exactly what they’re searching for—whether it’s love, lust, or friendship.

  • Alex Consani Gets Candid With Laverne Cox, Sasha Colby, and More in Pride Month Interview

    Alex Consani Gets Candid With Laverne Cox, Sasha Colby, and More in Pride Month Interview

    Supermodel Alex Consani is closing out Pride Month with a powerful and playful bang. Them magazine just dropped the fourth and final cover of its Pride series, spotlighting the Gen Z icon as she takes questions from a star-studded panel of trailblazing trans voices. Dubbed “The Dolls,” this interview lineup includes Sasha Colby, Laverne Cox, Connie Fleming, Susan Stryker, Blizzy Mcguire, Ceyenne Doroshow, and Martine Gutierrez, and nothing is off the table.

    From zombie apocalypse survival plans to systemic inequality, Consani is serving honesty, humor, and heart.

    A Cover Story That Celebrates Community

    Consani’s feature is part of Them’s month-long Pride celebration, which also includes covers starring Bella Ramsey, Tramell Tillman, and Alan Cumming, as well as an in-person WorldPride DC event with drag legend Sasha Colby.

    In addition to its cover stories, the publication launched “Them Superlatives,” a cheeky high school yearbook-inspired tribute to queer excellence, with shoutouts from stars like Hayley Williams, Vico Ortiz, and even Ellie the Elephant.

    But Consani’s cover feels particularly meaningful, not just because of her meteoric rise in fashion, but because of her commitment to community and advocacy.

    Photo: Them

    Supermodel Alex Consani opens up to Laverne Cox, Sasha Colby, and other icons about trans rights, dating, fashion, and more in a powerful Pride Month feature.
    Photo: Them

    Supermodel Alex Consani opens up to Laverne Cox, Sasha Colby, and other icons about trans rights, dating, fashion, and more in a powerful Pride Month feature.
    Photo: Them

    On Trans Joy, Visibility, and the Fight Ahead

    When asked by activist Ceyenne Doroshow about how to uplift the trans community during an increasingly hostile political era, Consani didn’t hold back.

    “We are not politics. Our existence shouldn’t be political,” she said. “You don’t owe anybody shit. The only person you owe at the end of the day is yourself.”

    She went on to emphasize that community, self-love, and education are vital tools in the face of hate, adding that respectful curiosity from outside the community can be powerful, if done with care.

    “Ask the questions,” she said. “Because that could save a life.”

    The Future Is Dolls

    In a conversation with fashion icon Connie Fleming, Consani shared her vision for a more inclusive industry, one that celebrates the full spectrum of trans identities.

    “I think the future is dolls,” she said. “Not just white, thin, able-bodied versions of our community, but all of us. That’s what’s fashionable to me.”

    She described a recent runway moment, the show Mother, Daughter, Holy Spirit, as a moving example of how the trans community continues to create beauty and meaning in the face of adversity.

    Supermodel Alex Consani opens up to Laverne Cox, Sasha Colby, and other icons about trans rights, dating, fashion, and more in a powerful Pride Month feature.
    Photo: Them

    Supermodel Alex Consani opens up to Laverne Cox, Sasha Colby, and other icons about trans rights, dating, fashion, and more in a powerful Pride Month feature.
    Photo: Them

    What’s Next for Alex?

    While Sasha Colby asked what’s still on her bucket list, Consani revealed her ambitions beyond the catwalk.

    “There are a lot of important industries that trans women need to break into,” she said. “I want to work on accessibility, and yeah, maybe philanthropy, big word, I know.”

    As her star rises, she wants her impact to go deeper than runways and magazine covers.

    Zombies, Boys, and Real Talk

    The interview wasn’t all heavy topics. Internet personality Blizzy Mcguire wanted to know: What would Consani wear in a zombie apocalypse?

    “Girl, a gun and some camo pants,” she quipped. “But also an escape plan, because that’s what the girls really need.”

    When Laverne Cox got personal about dating as a trans woman in the spotlight, Consani kept it real.

    “I’ve been active. I’ve been having my fun,” she laughed, noting that being publicly trans often brings complicated and sometimes fetishizing attention. “You never know people’s intentions.”

    Still, she’s learning to embrace exploration and take up space on her own terms.

    A Powerful Close to Pride

    Consani’s conversation with historian Susan Stryker reflected on her Bay Area roots, highlighting the beauty of local activism in San Francisco despite its post-COVID transformation.

    “Seeing San Francisco show up for No Kings Day really touched me,” she said. “That’s my community, and they showed up.”

    It’s clear that for Consani, pride isn’t just a photoshoot, it’s a commitment to connection, courage, and continued conversation.

    And with The Dolls by her side, she’s making sure those conversations are as dazzling as they are vital.

  • Celebrities Who Handled Sexuality Questions with Total Grace (and Sass)

    Celebrities Who Handled Sexuality Questions with Total Grace (and Sass)

    When fame and curiosity collide, pop culture furnishes some of its most memorable moments. From Broadway’s bright lights to stadium stages, celebrities have responded to intrusive questions about their sexuality with grace, wit and a touch of sass. Here’s a refreshed roundup of stand‑out responses, free from the original structure and full of new flavor.

    1. “Maybe I do…” Lady Gaga on Genital Gossip (2011)

    In a behind‑the‑scenes clip from 60 Minutes Overtime, Anderson Cooper posed an eyebrow‑raising rumor: did Lady Gaga have a “male appendage”? Gaga cheekily replied, “Maybe I do. Would it be so terrible?” before dismissing the fuss entirely, “Why the hell am I going to waste my time… My fans don’t care and neither do I.” It was less a deflection than a mic drop moment, setting an early example in celebrity “transvestigation” defenses. Gaga later told Bill Gates she didn’t want to lend legitimacy to harmful rumors, and that refusing to answer was a compassionate move for vulnerable fans shamed by falsehoods.

    2. Broadway Truth Bombs: Harvey Fierstein Schools Barbara Walters (1983)

    When Walters asked Fierstein, “What’s it like to be a homosexual?”, the actor-songwriter-drag trailblazer delivered a theatrical masterclass: “I don’t know. I’m just a person… I assume that everyone is gay unless I’m told otherwise. You assume everyone’s straight unless you’re told otherwise.” Fierstein punctured stigma by equating love and commitment for gay people with universal human experiences. He even quipped, “Monogamy is as prevalent a disease in homosexuality as it is in heterosexuality.” Though Walters’ tone reflected an era of ignorance, Fierstein’s cool, human-centered clarification has aged like fine wine, and is still frequently shared online.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tp-ZTzvTEyI

    3. “Why are you gay?” Ugandan Host Regrets an Awkward Moment

    A decade-old exchange resurfaced when Ugandan radio host Simon Kaggwa Njala asked LGBTQ activist Pepe Julian Onzima, “Why are you gay?” The awkward question led to shock and silence, and later regret. Njala confessed, “I sounded silly… I was too naive.” He reflected that his question was ill-timed and stemmed from ignorance. Though involuntary, his apology serves as reminder: not every platform suits delicate subjects, and reflection matters.

    4. Nick Offerman Fights Fake Hate with Fiction

    When a doctored video of Ron Swanson tossing a Pride flag went viral, “Parks and Recreation” star Nick Offerman didn’t hesitate. He fired back: “He was best man at a gay wedding, you dumb f‑ck.” Offerman’s response wasn’t just a defense of Swanson—it was a direct shoutout to LGBTQ fans and a bold call-out against falsified bigotry. The clip reminded everyone: sometimes the simplest clap‑back—backed by facts—is best.

    @pinknews

    Nick Offerman has hit back at homophobic comments made about an episode of #thelastofus in a fiery Independent Spirit Awards speech. The actor played Bill, a reclusive, closeted survivalist trying to survive the cordyceps outbreak in the third episode of the post-apocalyptic series. When fellow survivor Frank stumbles upon Bill’s house, the latter reluctantly takes him in – which ends up being a night of passion for the pair. #LGBTQ #Queer #pinknews

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    5. Azealia Banks Fires Back: “So… what now?”

    On The Breakfast Club, host Charlemagne asked Azealia Banks if she makes music “for the gays.” Banks paused, then delivered the mic-drop question: “I do. What’s wrong with that? So… what now?” Without turning hostile, she laid claim to her audience and stance in under five words. It was a moment of quiet defiance, an intentional refusal to submit to expectations.

    6. George Michael on Oprah: “I’m not interested in selling records to homophobes.”

    During a landmark interview with Oprah Winfrey in 2004, George Michael got candid about his sexuality after his 1998 arrest. When Oprah asked if he worried U.S. fans would reject him as a “gay artist,” he said, “I’m not interested in selling records to people who are homophobic.” The statement was straightforward, proud, and entirely unforgettable. It wasn’t just about marketing; it was about staying true to himself.

    7. Tom Hardy: “Why?” Calling out Inappropriate Timing

    At the 2015 Toronto International Film Festival, an LGBTQ reporter attempted to ask Tom Hardy about sexual identity, mid-press conference. Hardy replied with one precise word: “Why?” and exited the line. Later he explained to Entertainment Weekly that while he’s open to dialogue, timing and context matter. The exchange underscored the notion that celebrities’ private identities aren’t random public curiosities.

    8. Ricky Martin and Barbara Walters: a regretful interrogation (2000)

    Perhaps history’s most infamous moment of pressure? In 2000, Barbara Walters probed Ricky Martin: “You could say yes, say no, or leave it ambiguous.” After awkward silence, Walters admitted later it was the career moment she regretted most. Martin called it a violation; Walters reflected it “destroyed his career” prematurely. It remains a cautionary tale about overstepping boundaries in pursuit of a scoop.

    9. Heath Ledger Quietly Shut Down Brokeback Backlash

    When Brokeback Mountain premiered in 2005, it marked a major shift in queer representation on the big screen. The story of two men in love, played by Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal, wasn’t just a romance, it was a cinematic milestone. But not everyone was ready for it.

    During a press conference, Ledger was asked how he responded to those calling the film “disgusting.” His response was calm but pointed:

    “It’s an incredible shame that people go out of their way to voice disgust about how two people choose to love each other. At least voice your opinions about hate or violence. Isn’t that more important?”

    Ledger went on to reject the idea that Brokeback should be reduced to labels. “It transcends that. It’s a human story. Two souls in love. Get over the fact it’s two men.”

    His message was clear: if audiences couldn’t understand that, they didn’t have to see the film. But the love story wasn’t going anywhere.

    Years later, the clip continues to circulate online, a reminder that Ledger stood firm in defending queer love.even when it wasn’t the popular thing to do.

    Why These Moments Matter

    These celebrity comebacks aren’t just damning rejoinders, they’re cultural ripples. When high-profile figures challenge invasive or ignorant queries, they shift the narrative, reminding audiences of shared humanity, setting healthy boundaries, and affirming queer and curious people everywhere.

  • 7 Black Queer-Owned Brands to Celebrate This Juneteenth and Beyond

    7 Black Queer-Owned Brands to Celebrate This Juneteenth and Beyond

    Juneteenth is upon us, and it’s not just a day off, it’s a call to honor liberation by investing in the communities that continue to shape culture, style, and resistance. For generations, Black Americans have marked June 19 with joy, remembrance, and activism. The holiday commemorates the day in 1865 when enslaved people in Galveston, Texas finally learned of their freedom, two and a half years after the Emancipation Proclamation.

    While Juneteenth only became a federal holiday in 2021, Black communities have long treated it as sacred. And this year, there’s a powerful way to celebrate: by supporting Black queer-owned brands whose visions are as vibrant and boundary-breaking as their founders. These seven entrepreneurs aren’t just making products, they’re building legacies.

    1. Automic Gold: Everyday Jewelry, Every Gender

    Automic Gold is rewriting the rules of fine jewelry. This queer- and trans-owned brand handcrafts every piece in recycled 14K gold and ethically sourced gemstones. Think minimalist rings, delicate chains, and custom nameplates that affirm your identity with a bit of sparkle. Their gender-free approach makes accessorizing a joy, whether you’re stacking up or keeping it subtle.

     

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    2. BLK MKT Vintage: Curated Black Nostalgia

    In Brooklyn, partners Jannah Handy and Kiyanna Stewart turned a passion for collecting into BLK MKT Vintage, a treasure trove of Black history and culture. From rare books and retro vinyl to ’70s tees and radical zines, each item feels like a time capsule. It’s not just décor, it’s preservation with a purpose, spotlighting Black queer stories that deserve to be seen and celebrated.

     

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    3. Chef Joya: Soul Food, Reimagined

    Charlotte’s own Chef Joya is proof that vegan doesn’t mean boring. A proud Black lesbian, Joya’s culinary creations blend soul food with Afro-Caribbean, African, and French influences. Her plant-based dishes have earned love from celebrities like Fantasia Barrino and thousands of fans across the South. This Juneteenth, why not add a little plant-based love to your plate?

     

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    4. K.NGSLEY: Style as Revolution

    Launched in 2020 by Nigerian-American designer Kingsley Gbadegesin, K.NGSLEY isn’t just a fashion label, it’s a movement. The brand’s genderless silhouettes celebrate queer, femme, and trans bodies with unapologetic confidence. With fans like Lil Nas X and Zaya Wade, K.NGSLEY proves that style can be both political and personal. The brand also reinvests in grassroots organizing and mutual aid efforts, making fashion a force for liberation.

     

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    5. A Tribe Called Queer: Streetwear That Speaks Up

    If you’re looking to make a statement, A Tribe Called Queer has you covered, literally. Founder Chance Jones created the brand to merge fashion and activism, with streetwear that champions Black queer visibility. Their bold prints, cheeky slogans, and unapologetic pride aren’t just stylish, they’re a rallying cry.

    6. Inkwell Fine Art Prints: Stories for Your Walls

    Jason Hodges, a proud Black gay artist, launched Inkwell to make fine art more accessible, and more representative. The brand’s prints are vivid, powerful, and deeply rooted in themes of freedom, legacy, and queer joy. It’s not just wall art—it’s a statement of pride, resilience, and reclamation.

    7. A Rainbow in Your Cloud: Affirming Your Space

    Jenn Thompson founded A Rainbow in Your Cloud to infuse home goods with heart. Think throw blankets, art prints, and décor that blends softness with strength. Her designs layer gentle pastels with empowering affirmations, turning any space into a personal sanctuary.

     

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    Celebrate With Intention

    Juneteenth is more than a history lesson, it’s a reminder of how far we’ve come and how far we still have to go. Supporting these Black queer-owned businesses isn’t just feel-good consumerism; it’s a meaningful way to honor the resilience, creativity, and leadership of communities that have always shaped the culture.

    So this June 19, and every day after, shop with purpose, uplift Black queer voices, and let your dollars do the talking.

  • JoJo Siwa Reacts to Miley Cyrus’ Pride Joke: ‘Not What the World Needs to Hear’

    JoJo Siwa Reacts to Miley Cyrus’ Pride Joke: ‘Not What the World Needs to Hear’

    JoJo Siwa is setting the record straight, with grace, honesty and a touch of shade.

    The 22-year-old pop star, TV personality and LGBTQ+ icon recently addressed a viral video from Miley Cyrus that made a cheeky jab at her sexuality during a WorldPride celebration. While the “Dance Moms” alum has long been a devoted Miley fan, even she admits the joke landed more awkward than amusing.

    A WorldPride Surprise Turns Sour

    During the 2025 WorldPride Dreamland DC festivities on June 7, attendees were treated to a surprise video message from Cyrus. Standing in the doorway of a food closet, the “Flowers” singer cracked: “Oh my god. I haven’t been in there since the sixth grade. Enjoy coming out of the closet if this Pride is the time for you. It shouldn’t be a month, it should be a year. It should be infinite.”

    But it was her closing quip that raised eyebrows: “I’m going back in the closet to get more pretzels… and to find JoJo Siwa and bring her back out.” The remark was widely seen as a nod to Siwa’s recent relationship with Love Island UK’s Chris Hughes, a notable shift after she previously identified as a lesbian.

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    JoJo Breaks Her Silence

    On June 12, Siwa posted a thoughtful Instagram response, blending vulnerability and maturity with a bit of side-eye. The post included childhood photos from her Miley-themed fifth birthday party and a heartfelt caption reflecting on how the moment made her feel.

    “If you know me, you know that Miley is my day one,” she wrote. “Grew up beyond inspired by her from 2 years old on.”

    After taking a few days to process the comment, Siwa admitted, “I don’t believe what Miley said at WorldPride was ill-intended. Honestly, I think it was meant to be a joke, but just not a very good one haha. Not what the world, or myself, needs to hear any day of the week.”

    She added that she messaged Cyrus “light-heartedly” about the incident, and the pop star responded with a brief but kind reply: “All love. Always. ❤️❤️❤️.”

     

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    Embracing Queer Identity, On Her Terms

    Siwa used her platform to deliver a larger message about self-love and authenticity. “The most beautiful thing I’ve learned in the last 5 years is that love is a gorgeous rainbow,” she wrote. “Don’t question yourself, don’t second guess yourself, just love.”

    This isn’t Siwa’s first time addressing how she labels, or doesn’t label, her sexuality. Since coming out in 2021 with a “Best. Gay. Cousin. Ever.” T-shirt, she’s shared that she’s still navigating identity on her own terms.

    “I still don’t know what I am,” she told People in a previous interview. “I always just say gay because it kind of covers it… but I think the keyword is queer. I like queer.”

    Most recently, while appearing on Celebrity Big Brother UK, Siwa opened up to RuPaul’s Drag Race UK winner Danny Beard about identifying more with the “Q” than the “L.”

    “I’m switching letters! I’ve dropped the L and gone to the Q, baby,” she joked. “That’s what I love about sexuality.”

    Social Media Weighs In

    As expected, the internet had thoughts, lots of them. Some fans were quick to defend Miley’s humor as playful and light-hearted, while others criticized the joke as tone-deaf and unnecessary.

    “It’s really strange how some bi women can be biphobic lol,” one fan wrote on X.

    Others defended Siwa noting her age and exploration as a queer person. “Maybe one day yall will realize you have been bullying Jojo Siwa since she was little. She has been growing up and making mistakes in front of the entire world. Stop acting like yall perfect. She’s only 22, some empathy and understanding would be nice,” said another.

    Queer creators also chimed in, many expressing how important it is to respect how fluid and personal identity can be, even for celebrities.

    Love, Laughter, and Lessons

    In the end, Siwa’s message was about more than just a misplaced joke. It was a reminder that Pride isn’t about perfection, it’s about progress, personal truth, and giving people the space to evolve.

    “People judge no matter what,” Siwa concluded. “But if you feel happy and content with yourself, that’s most important. You get one life, hold onto it, make it yours, find your happy, and love.”